hotmama Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 hiya pac, thanks for your comment, no i am not looking for guys like that again im tryin to avoid all that happenin again thats why i find it hard that ive found one that dnt treat me like crap, but i seem to push him away everytime we get close, i want to settle down with him but while im like this i cnt, something is holding me back and i dnt no what it is, maybe cuz ive been with guys who treat me bad im just expecting it to happen again and i no in this case that wnt happen so maybe i should try and put all the past behind me and move on which ive not been doing, when we are together its so perfect but when we are apart im a changed women, the slightest thing just sets me off and i really want that to stop, i dnt get a kick out of getting hurt all the time but its what have been use to, i care for this guy a great deal and i dnt want to hurt him anymore than i have and i certainly dnt want to lose him cuz of my stupid mouth, hes the best thing thats happened to me in a long time, i just need advice on the best way to go about it so it dnt happen again
ruggy Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 In my small humble opinion, most women think they want a man who is secure, stable and cares about them. In reality, they tend to shun these types of guys and go for the rough dirty guy who couldn't care less about them. When they grow out of these stage, then they shoot for the secure, stable guy. Just depends on when you grow out of this stage. It could be 25 or 35. Are you prepared to stick with one guy who cares about you and is stable? One that, at times, may be difficult and a bit boring? I guess this can go to the men too. You also need to be on the same level. Your dreams, feelings, family, ideals, sex, etc. It can take some time.
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