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Hello. This is my first post. I have always been very shy when it comes to meeting someone I really like. There is a woman who I am just crazy about. I didn’t like her when I first met her so I am kinda surprised that I like her now. I asked her if I could call her a couple months back and she didn’t answer. I took that as a “no, I’m not interested.” I saw her a few weeks later and we were making frequent eye contact and I wasn’t sure if she wasn’t interested. I don’t really know how eye contact works (I have a very hard time picking up on many social cues. Anyway, I didn’t want to appear desperate so I did not push the calling thing again and just said good bye. I saw her again a couple of days ago and we made some small take and occasional eye contact. I was afraid to look at her. Now...I have no idea what to do next. Flirting has never been one of my strong suits and I am great at acting like I am not interested. The last time I was really interested in someone, I didn’t know what to do and I gave up which is one of my greatest regrets. I do not want to make the same mistake again. I feel I need to pursue her a little more. She has never said no. What can I do?

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I'd say just keep talking to her and try to get to know her better... you will begin to feel more comfortable. Ask her questions about herself... she will probably like that you are interested in getting to know her, people like talking about themselves. Since she didnt answer when you asked if you could call her, she may not like you as more than a friend, but who knows... just keep talking to her.

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