T.O.gurl Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 i've posted here a few times before about my situation and have gotten many helpful responses so i figured i'd post an update. i was talking to the "ex" last night online(we hadn't talked in a few weeks)and i've been thinking about him a lot lately for some reason. anyways he asked what i'd been up to lately and i said "thinking about you" and he says "really? cause i have for you, as well..." so i said "really? why's that?" and he responded with "well,cause, i...." i said "yes?", and he says "...i..." again i say "yes? what is it?" and he said "...love...", again i say "yes?" and he says ....dogs...i was a bit disappointed and said "oh. ok". he said "don't you??" and i said "yeah". he put a little smiley and i said "i kind of thought you were going to say something else". he then says "hey i'll be back in a bit or text me!"...the only problem with texting him though is he can't really respond back because he lives in another country and his father is making the payments on his cell phone. i told him it was pointless to text him and he said "you can say anything you want, just i can't back" wtf is going on here? he continues to confuse me when we talk. what does he want? for those who haven't read some of my posts on my situation here's one from a few weeks ago with more feedback of his behavior. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t174367/
BikerBeagle Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 He said, "I ...love ...dogs"? Are you serious? Wow. Why are you still talking to this ass? He's screwing with your head.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 i......................... love...................... dogs. hmmmmm dogs = messing with your head. i....................... love.................. messing with your head. i haven't read your other thread. i don't have to. this guy is not worth it. and by telling him you were thinking about him...............................................you are playing into his hands. don't do that. it's not good for you.
Author T.O.gurl Posted January 19, 2009 Author Posted January 19, 2009 i understand that he was messing around last night with the "i love dogs" comment. however, while talking online just before xmas he did say "i love you" only to have me tell him that was bs and call him a liar and let him know i have been seeing someone new. the conversations that took place between xmas and now have only made me angry at him(and probably him with me)as he's told me about other girls he's been with and made "jokes" about getting lots of girls in his bed lately
Citizen Erased Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 I...love...dogs... I don't find what he said so hilarious, just the audacity of his remark. What a jerk. Why are you still talking to him? He's screwing around with you, apparently sleeping with other women...what do you get out of staying in contact with him?
Island Girl Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 i understand that he was messing around last night with the "i love dogs" comment. however, while talking online just before xmas he did say "i love you" only to have me tell him that was bs and call him a liar and let him know i have been seeing someone new. the conversations that took place between xmas and now have only made me angry at him(and probably him with me)as he's told me about other girls he's been with and made "jokes" about getting lots of girls in his bed lately Okay let me get this straight. He is playing with your emotions which is hurtful. He is commenting about seeing other women. He is making "jokes" about sleeping with other women. And you are sticking around...why? I mean he IS in another country so it isn't as if you'll run into him anytime soon. Just break it off and be done with him as well as the dysfunctional twisted crap you are so caught up in. You said you are dating someone else. Is that true? Because if it is you really aren't being fair to the guy - and if you aren't you are attempting to mess with his head as well. He is just better at it than you are.
burningashes Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 Ugh :/ I agree with the other posters, dump this guy and move on!
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