anijanoki Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Having had an affair I can say this: in an affair you feel like you found what was missing. But the truth is all you found is how to make things worse! It hurts everyone. I think the OW hasn't figured that out. I have no advice for you. I wish you luck in your decision.
Author hopereys Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 Having had an affair I can say this: in an affair you feel like you found what was missing. But the truth is all you found is how to make things worse! It hurts everyone. I think the OW hasn't figured that out. I have no advice for you. I wish you luck in your decision. That's exactly what my husband says, at first he thought he found what was missing from our marriage and then as time went on he realized he had now made things much worse and didn't no how to get out of the mess he had started. I no I should't but I feel so much anger for the OW she new he was married and even claims to know how I feel saying her ex-husband did the same thing to her. The whore can't truly have experienced the pain I feel, if she did she would have never hurt another woman like this.
MSUE Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 The only 2 people that know who said what who did what is the 2 of them so unless alll 3 of you sit and discusss it which seriously its very far from reality you may never know alll the whys and whats and whos. Trust can be rebuild but you guys need to not only work together and do it with professional help. The best piece of advice I could give you is to not stay with him because of the house or your girls...single mom? plenty of womwn do it! House? may need to be sold you get your part and get another one...Be happy if you feel that your marriage is at a point of no return you deserve to move on...and meet someone else yourself...
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