emotionalydistraugt Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 I wasn't doing all that great to begin with and then she got a hold of me earlier this week 2 days after she got into a new relationship. The fact that she contacted me made me think her new relationship is just a rebound or she keeps thinking about me while she's with this new guy. And now all I think about is writing her a note telling her how I think about her and how I still love her despite her cheating on me. I dont know what to think or what to do. I'm so confused. I want to contact her. I really really do. I keep checking her facebook and myspace even though I deleted her as a friend. I dont know what I'm expecting. I think I'm just hoping she doesnt put a picture of her and this new guy together because if that happens then I fear I've lost her for good. I even have watched chick flicks and they've given me hope that we can be together in the future. I dont know why I want to. She cheated on me and I should hate her. But I dont. I think about her constantly and I think that I could try and forgive her if she came back. But I dont know if she wants to. I am just so confused
cabarc1 Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 You should never want a girl back if she cheated on you! But there are people who do take them back and end up ok. Point is, i'm sure she knows you love her so don't go telling her that again. If you honestly want her to come back, just leave her alone, there is nothing you can do or say to make them come back. You have to let it run it's course. In my opinion you will only screw any chance by contacting her and letting her know you are there and she will just lose respect for you. Right now, just focus on you and fix urself. You will not heal if you keep contacting her and it's the #1 mistake u can make if you truly want her to come back. Doesn't mean she will but contacting her will definitely kill that chance. Let her wonder about u........
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