awesomeallalone Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 today is 2 weeks since the breakup and nc.... and im feeling worse than i have the whole 2 weeks.... i truly feel like im going backwards... i dont know what to do... its hard to keep nc and its getting harder every minute!! even when i know it wont make a diffrence I KNOW IT WONT!!! i feel pretty helpless now and i dont know what to do.
saturnsfall Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 I know exactly how you feel. I'm in the same boat. I feel like I hit a rock and the boat is filling with water and I can't bail it out quick enough. I think the pain increases and emotions get worse because the more between when you and your ex last spoke becomes a greater space in time. This makes everything more of a reality. Things will get a little better in the next couple weeks. Two weeks is great. This is kind of like rehabs twelve step program. You've earned a chip.
sedgwick Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 At two weeks, I was still lying in the floor sobbing and unable to eat. 14 days does not get you over a relationship, unfortunately. I'm at 18 months and still hurt a lot, and can't imagine ever loving anyone else, but I'm not like I was at two weeks. At least the NC isn't hard anymore. That part does get easier.
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