Viking Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 I met this girl in my history class. First day of class, I see her and think, "She's kinda cute" and continue to survey the women in the room for looking purposes. Well, next week, I go to this little shindig at a pizza restaurant for us history majors and she comes in the door and sits right across from me. So, I joke around a little and find out some info. Turns out that she brought her roommate along because she didn't want to go alone/didn't have anybody to go with her. So, I'm thinking that she's single? Anyways, she's mad cute and better looking than I thought. She's also a really nice person and we talked the next time we had class, I went and sat in my back-of-the-room spot and she sits in front. Our class is two hours long, so we get a ten or so minute break, so during the break, I went and started talking to her and ended up spending the remainder of the class (and discussion section) in the desk next to hers. After class was getting out, she told me about what she had planned for the long weekend. I didn't ask who she was going snowboarding with, but I hope it wasn't a guy... During the ten minute break as we were talking, she remembered a lot of what I had said over pizza as far as work and some other stuff. I took that as a sign that she either A) Has a good memory or B) Kinda likes me(?). She remembered where I work and what I do. How would I go about casually getting her number (because I've only talked to her a few times) and possibly go out on a date? Thanks!
Geishawhelk Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Viking (hello, it's me again....! ) How would it be if you sidled up to her one day and said: "I risk life and limb here, but what would you say to me if I asked you for your number?" And then grin, cheekily.... melt her heart.
alphamale Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 How would I go about casually getting her number (because I've only talked to her a few times) and possibly go out on a date? you just ask her if you can give her a call sometime. if she offers you her # then you're golden. if she hesitates or gives you anything else beside her # then its time to jump ship
ruggy Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Go up and ask her if she'd like to do something. Then get her number. Pretty simple.
Confusedalways Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 OH! One of my male friends told me his technique recently. He said to just talk casually and normal, then as you're about to walk away, take out your phone and say "oh! let me get your number." My friend advises that the "let me" is the most important part of the phrase and to make it seem casual just do it really quick as you're about to leave the convo.
Author Viking Posted January 19, 2009 Author Posted January 19, 2009 Viking (hello, it's me again....! ) How would it be if you sidled up to her one day and said: "I risk life and limb here, but what would you say to me if I asked you for your number?" And then grin, cheekily.... melt her heart. How much time should I allow to "get to know her" so that she isn't weirded out by me asking for her number/asking her out? I don't want to be some random guy who asks her out and be shot down because I don't know her enough. (Hi Geisha!) you just ask her if you can give her a call sometime. if she offers you her # then you're golden. if she hesitates or gives you anything else beside her # then its time to jump ship I did that last quarter. Some girl in my class was always chatty with me and seemed to be kinda into me, so I asked her for her number and she told me to give her mine. I figured it was over and out from there. Go up and ask her if she'd like to do something. Then get her number. Pretty simple. I simply don't know her well enough to do that. Or do I? OH! One of my male friends told me his technique recently. He said to just talk casually and normal, then as you're about to walk away, take out your phone and say "oh! let me get your number." My friend advises that the "let me" is the most important part of the phrase and to make it seem casual just do it really quick as you're about to leave the convo. I agree with the "let" portion. As long as you give them the opportunity rather than saying, "why don't you GIVE me your number...". Thanks thus far. I will try to keep an updated journey of this girl and my interactions. She's a history major (and good looking), and seems to be really nice and genuine, so she's the perfect girl!:love::love: Only "problem" is that she's a sophomore and I'm a senior...but that's probably not that big of a deal.
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