rebe84 Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 So I was in a relationship for a month with this guy that I really liked. He ended it he said because of the distance and school well thats what he said. We live only an hour apart but I don't buy those excuses. I'm having a hard time finding closure because I don't get why he did it, I know there are more reasons to it that he hasn't told me. A few days before he broke up with me he asked us to start over and slow things down and I agreed. So the breakup came as a complete shock to me. I've given him space. A week. I want to talk to him to say hi but I don't know what to say. Its been a week. I've heard nothing from him. He told me when we broke up that he wants to be in my life and be friends, and wants to talk again. But he hasn't made any contact. He keeps all my comments and pictures of us..on his myspace and facebook. I've kept busy doing my thing but I'm hurt he won't talk to me. Do any of you know why he won't talk to me? If I do contact him how do I handle it and what do I say? Any suggestions?
Geishawhelk Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Listen..... very carefully..... can you hear that rumbling......? That's the sound of around 500 pairs of feet, all running towards this thread...... All Loveshack members who have been unceremoniously dumped...... getting closer now...... and all coming to a standstill.... all taking a deep breath..... and all bellowing at the tops of their voices, in unison: GO NO CONTACT!!!
Geishawhelk Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Do any of you know why he won't talk to me? because he doesn't want to. If I do contact him how do I handle it and what do I say? Any suggestions? You do not contact this guy. You do not check up on him on either Myspace or facebook. You remove him from your mobile 'phone. You remove his address from your e-mail. You do not answer any possible attempts on his part to try to contact you. If indeed, he ever tries. In any way. You move on with your life, and show you have backbone and chutzpah. You leave this behind, and get yourself a brand new hunk. because - you can.
sedgwick Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 FWIW, I once broke up with someone solely because of distance and school, and she lived an hour away. That truly was the reason. I couldn't handle it all.
saturnsfall Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 because he doesn't want to. You do not contact this guy. You do not check up on him on either Myspace or facebook. You remove him from your mobile 'phone. You remove his address from your e-mail. You do not answer any possible attempts on his part to try to contact you. If indeed, he ever tries. In any way. You move on with your life, and show you have backbone and chutzpah. You leave this behind, and get yourself a brand new hunk. because - you can. Listen to this advice, it will save you possible future mistakes. Mistakes that don't need to be made.
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