Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 I dated a guy for about 8 months, things were rocky at times...but all in all we had a great friendship and have a nice time together. Well, I think I got frustrated & I called it off, he called me wanting to make things work out, and I said ok i willl give it a chance....then a couple weeks later we are texting and he says something like he wants me as a casual friend. It broke my heart because he pretty much said he wanted to know what he can do to make things better for us, made plans with me,callled/texted me daily, and now hes calling me a casual friend. He went as far as telling me he missed me(something he has never said in 8 months of dating, so it was a big deal). Well, I kinda lost it and told him things were shaky with us and the comment from him made me feel uncomfortable. And he said he thought he was clear that he didn't want to date anyone b/c his life is too stressful at the time. So I just told him I didnt think it was very fair to me, he is giving me mixed messages as to what he wants and I didnt really think a casual friendship would work out right now. Im kinda regretting my decision, did I jump the gun?? If I would've just waited things out, maybe it wouldve worked out better We did have plans for next weekend to do something and now nothing .He told me I was the only girl he has really opened up to and was the closest with me. Did I break his heart without even knowing ? The thing is.....I liked him as a friend, I didnt think we could date, I need more affection from someone, and he's just not like that. Why can't we stay friends now?
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