Ofelia.Poe Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Beginning in October my fiance of two years told me he wanted to take some time alone to figure some stuff out, so i let him have that time. On Christmas day I went over to his house to find him with a 17 year old (we're both 25) that he works with sitting on my couch. Needless to say I went crazy. About a week after this girl starts texting me from his phone saying very vulgar things and calling me horrible names and then she started calling me from his phone. I told his parents about it and his mom yelled at her to leave me alone. Nothing happened after that but then after New Years he told me never to speak to him again and he doesn't want me in his life at all. He won't give me back any of my stuff and he won't let me see our dog, which is actually one of the more heart breaking things. I called him the other day because I needed a number that he had, the conversation was fine and we were both really nice except he asked me if I had now become a "wild child." Whatever that means. And he's been driving by my house. Tonight I texted him to ask if I could see our dog anytime soon. He didn't respond. I really don't know what to do or think about the whole situation. I live in a pretty small town and I know people who work with them and found out that this 17 year old doesn't even want a relationship with him. I don't get it. I know...I should let it go and move on. Any advice would be very very helpful, I'm going nuts.
JooLee Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 sometimes i dont get how selfish and immature some people can be. the good thing here is you KNOW you SHOULD let go and move - and the only thing that is stopping you from moving on.. is YOURSELF. he left you, then had fun with a childish 17 year old and he is not human enough to have the decency to give u back your stuff n to let you see your dog. why do you need such a person. he is so immature. you know, you sound like a person way higher than him. dont let his dumping u feel low about yourself. prove to him nad yourself that you're better off without him.
iwanttolive Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 You know what was the first thing that came to my mind? PHEW!!! Thank goodness she did not marry him. What a close shave... I actually felt relieved for you. I would worry if you get back together with this guy. Hugs, darling.
Ariadne Posted January 18, 2009 Posted January 18, 2009 Well, The guy doesn't want anything to do with you now that he started dating this girl and you were trouble. But now, who knows, it may be that their relationship is short lived and he might let you see the dog at least. At least he didn't say no. Good luck though.
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