loveinlife Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 we usually stay up hours a night chatting... know that i work more, go out less, and stay home often... it feels lonely when she isn't around... anyone know what i am talking about? how do you deal with this? thanks for reading -love
Geishawhelk Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Yes, it's called jealousy and resentment, with a huge sprinklin' of Apathy. Get a hobby, get a past-time... I went to the library once, bored out of my box, and took a few non-fiction books off the shelves (about 20 in all) and sat for about 2 hours skimming through them until something attracted my interest in more than just 'passing'. I delved deeper. I researched. I studied. I put my interest into practice. I attended courses. Now, I'm a Dog behaviourist. I'm loving it!! All because I got bored one monday afternoon!
Intergalactic Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 go out with YOUR friends. watch an awesome documentary. pick up something new, like joining a club or a gym class or knitting or painting. you have the time now! you have a bit of freedom so use it to your advantage, because it will serve you a LOT better than moping around. yes, these things are not cure-alls. but as cliche as they might sound, it really helps. and you'll get out and meet new people and start having fun again, and before you know it, you'll feel you won't need her whenever you have time off. because you really shouldn't be relying on her to feel good or occupied... co-dependent relationships are not healthy!
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