d0ll Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 If you go out (to the movies) & the guy doesn't pay does that mean he doesn't like you?
curiousnycgirl Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Could mean that, could mean he's cheap, could mean he's clueless, or broke. Who invited who to said movie? We've had several posts on who pays lately - probably lots of questions you may have are answered there.
Author d0ll Posted January 17, 2009 Author Posted January 17, 2009 I just said "we should go to the movies this weekend" & he said 'ok'
curiousnycgirl Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Doesn't sound like a date to me - if you wanted it to be a date, you should have paid, because you invited him. At least that's my opinion
RichGuy Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Dump him, there are plenty of guys who would at least offer to pay.
peteyj Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 So if I go out on a date and the girl doesn't offer to pay, what does that mean? It really shouldn't matter in this day and age.. Yeah some people are cheap but at some point it comes down to what do you both bring to the table... I made the mistake of marrying a woman who rarely worked and I had to support for about 5 and half years. A lot of the fights over the years were about money. She liked to spend tons of it but never earned any of it. And then a couple months back she winds up cheating on me....... For me, I make very good money so in the future when I do start dating again....the woman has to make good money or very good money or I'm just not interested. A woman with goals and ambitions. A woman who doesn't just want to leach off of me for years. Call me whatever you want but supporting a wife for years who never made more than $10K a year and went to school one semester than took off a few years and so on is just not worth it... Which means if i go out on a date and the woman doesn't even attempt to go into her purse.even if I"m paying for everything...I'm already thinking negative thoughts.
prettybaby Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Ok, we need more background details. You offered to go to the movies, you paid, it's not totally unfair lol Now, how long have you been dating? Has he paid for previous outings? Was there dinner / drinks involved before/after the movie? If so, who paid for that?
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