Will he ever speak to me again?

[rebe84]

I've recently became single and am heart broken b/c I haven't liked anyone this much in such a long time. Don't get me wrong this isn't my first heart break. I'm 24 and my now ex is 20. We were only together a month and very into each other but we were friends a month prior to our relationship. We lived an hour apart from each other and tried to see each as much as well could since we're both in college. Everything was going good until he got back in school after winter break had ended. He became distant and doubtful, then a week later he broke up with me out of the blue. I'm devastated..I miss talking to him and everything. I don't understand any of this. He was so angry when he broke up with me..he telling kept telling me I deserve better and just broke down on me sayin he might need to go speak to a counselor cause he said he doesn't know who he is anymore, not to mention he said he got into a fight the night before he said because of me. He told me he needed a few days and would want to talk to me but it's been 5 days now and I've heard nothing. He told me he wanted to be the best guy friend to me possible. But he hasn't once tried contacting me. No text, email, IM, or call. I'm wondering if he hates me. He's never not talked this long to me. I have done the NC thing and I hate it. Whenever I'm on facebook and he's on there on the same time..he will never say anything to me. Do you think he's waiting for me to come and talk to him? Is he playing games? I don't know what to do.

[BCCA]

I don't think he's interested in a relationship with you anymore. If that is indeed the case, him ignoring you completely is really the best way to handle it.

 

Dont listen to any of the other BS about needing a counsler, etc...he just isnt into the relationship part. I wouldnt contact him until youre ready to just be friends, and I would avoid seeing him if you can.

 

Sorry, I know this hurts. I dont think he hates you, but I do think hes over your relationship.