He said we're not meant to be...

[supersetter1989]

I'm in my second in college, and had been in a relationship with my now ex-boyfriend for about four months. Everything was amazing the entire time, he was always caring for me, treated me nicely, honestly the perfect boyfriend. I was also the first girl he had ever taken home to his parents. Before me, he was the type of guy who just had random hookups but no relationship. All of his friends told me he used to talk about me all the time and was really into me. The week of New Years he had gone to visit his older sister in New York. He called me multiple times and was always telling me how much he missed me, and all the things he had gotten for me, even after I had told him not to buy me anything. He is 20 years old and going to school while living on his own, so money is tight. I sometimes feel like he feels obligated to buy me things when in reality I don't need any of it. He was supposed to come back New Years Eve to go to a party w/ me, but his bus was canceled because of snow. I went to the party anyways with some of my friends and spoke to him on the phone and txted all through the night. One of the things he said to me was "I think I'm falling in love with you". that made my day and I was so excited. He came back the following day and everything was even better than before. The following Monday we headed up to New Hampshire with a few friends for a ski trip. The entire time he was holding my hand in the car and just being really affectionate. We had a blast that night with all of our friends, but he started smoking and for some reason I got upset because he doesn't usually smoke. Then he was really drunk and tried hooking up with me and I told him to chill out. That night we weren't intimate and he kinda just passed out besides me, still cuddling of corse. The following day we went to the grocery store with some friends, and they all were telling me how I am the favorite girlfriend out of everyones and how they all really liked me. Two hours later we were making out and he seemed weird. I asked what's up and he told me he didn't feel the connection he felt with me @ first and he wanted to break up. I was in total shock I just cried and he stayed with me the whole time. For the rest of the vacation he was always with me, and was acting like my boyfriend minus the sexual part. He was then saying he didnt want to break up just take a break, but thats the SAME thing. We were still flirting the whole time. When we got back we had a few long talks and he had basically said he still really liked and cared for me but he didn't think we were right for each other. Anyway its been a little over a week, and we have still haven't gotten back together, yet we hang out almost every day and constantly talk. On Sunday we kissed for the first time, and now we always seem to be intimate when we're with each other. I love being with him and really would like to get back together, but he won't budge. What is his deal? He is always asking me to hang out and gets jealous around other guys. Tells me he really likes me and cares for me, yet doesn't think we are meant to be. How can you know that after only a few months? helpppp