How often is too often to for boyfriend to go to strip club? Long post, sorry.

[whitburn1986]

Strip clubs aren't really that interesting. I knew two people who went to one, and to be honest, they said they were bored stiff by it in the end and were more interested in other things.

 

Maybe this is just my opinion, anyone else had similar experiences?

 

Thankfully I've never been to one, and have no intention of going.

[Enema]

Ehhh, I think strip clubs are great.

 

Good techno music, cheap drinks so you spend more money on the girls, really cold air-con so the girls don't sweat, and more skin to look at than a regular club without any pretense or attitude.

 

Just gotta watch your wallet and never buy a lapdance

[You'reasian]

I see that in some responses to posts on boyfriends going to the strip club, people respond that it's not a problem unless he goes too often.

 

What do you consider too often? Everyday day would obviously fall under that category, but how about once a week with his buddies? One Friday out of every month? Four times a year? Once a year?

 

Basically wondering whether people would consider that my boyfriend of six years goes too often. He's been going about once a month after work on Fridays with his male co-workers (he says they never plan to go there, it's just where they end up by the end of the night). This started up since we've moved to a bigger city where they have strip clubs (so about 6 months, which was his first time ever going to a strip club-he's 24 by the way). I don't like him going, mostly because he seems to get lap dances every time, he is spending money on other women when he doesn't spend a dime on me, he comes home between 2-4 in the morning smelling like stripper perfume and the clothes have to immediately be thrown in to the wash to keep our home from stinking (which he is too drunk to do), and he doesn't call me on these Fridays to let me know where he is, so if he's not home by midnight on any given Friday I can assume he's at a strip club. But he continues to go anyways regardless of how upset it makes me and I think that as I have stated that I don't like him going, that him ever going is too often.

 

But I'm curious as to what everyone else thinks. I have a feeling most responses will say it's just him having a good time/bonding with his buddies, and chalk it up to guys being guys, because guys just like to look at "different" tits every once in a while while having a good time with friends. Right?

 

Once a month is not bad but it sounds like you guys need to talk about your relationship.