redant Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 She wont post here I wanted to see what you guys thought. She has been w/her bf 9 months. He has pretty much done everything to make her happy and lavished her with trips lots of expensive gifts, helped her financially also. It is just that he is happy all the time and things are always good in his life. She feels as if she is always sharing her issues and he has none. She currently is struggling a bit looking for a better job. She has been insecure also about him buying a house for himself and her not feeling included. He has no worries and he is fine seeing her once during the week and on weekends it has been that way from the beginning. She'd like to see him more and is annoyed that he is happy as can be with his life and it seems with or without her at least to her. Any advice on what she can do or should do to feel better and confident?
prettybaby Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Why doesn't she address those issues directly to him? He probably has no clue she's feeling that way. Whether she has valid reasons to feel that way or not is a different issue; but it needs to be discussed between them.
Author redant Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 i htink she let him no some of her feelings recently but shes still not feeling so secure as far as I know.
Author redant Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 They argue if she starts it or if he snapsbut he's never sad about anything or worried except about her. Hes usually ok with anything.
You'reasian Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Sounds like he is generally a happy individual, with or without her. Perhaps she isn't addressing the issue head on and initiating contact. I've seen this before. The girl tries to temporarily pull herself away from a relationship, hold back and see if the man will come chasing - but he is content with where he is
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