Makemesmile Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 What do i do? I know talking to him will cut me up inside and i feel i have done so well. But i owe him cash,before NC i asked him to give me his Acc details and i would put in in his bank so we didnt have to see or speak. But he said he wanted me to take it to the house each mth. To me thats not going to help me or him get over this! I have since thought i will just drop it as his Mums, however this mnth i will not be able to pay what we agreed and i want to tell him that! Any advise?
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Mail him a letter or something. Have a friend tell him for you. Or just move, change your number, and don't give him any details. OWNED!
BikerBeagle Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 What do i do? But he said he wanted me to take it to the house each mth. Any advise?Tell him either you can drop it in his bank account, or you can mail him a check/money order each month ...those are his options, those are his ONLY options. Yes, you owe him money, but that doesn't mean he can force you to have contact with him to pay it back.
heartbroken55 Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 I'm in the same boat. I have to meet with the ex today to talk about money. I'm just going to be as cold as possible and be strictly business only. She didn't even with me a happy birthday. That bitch...
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