EndwereIbegin Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Ok so i just emailed my ex. Just saying i know this terms going to be hard for you and if you need to talk here is my number. that was basically it. She responds venting at me Saying how she doesn't need me and congrats that you started a new course. Basically then she writes another one saying how i need to stop contacting her (haven't contacted her for weeks and don't intend to again). Basically really angry and saying that I'm being pathetic and that even is she was available she wouldn't go there. Basically i feel completely happy after this its like my closer i feel no need to message her and am not going to. And basically want to know why she venting so much even though she insisted she was over me about 3 weeks ago.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 dude, who broke up with who? and why is term going to be hard for her?
Author EndwereIbegin Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 She doesn't Know that many people and she broke up with me. Was Kinda all desperate to begin with but found this site. Thing is i don't regret the email i mean its almost as if she wrote back to try an provoke a response.
Helioz Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 honestly, i think you just made things worse with that email. She probably took as if " good luck on your term without me ...heres my number as a lifeline cause i know youll need it" hence the "i dont need you anymore im doing perfectly fine" response from her.
Author EndwereIbegin Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 I know it kinda made things worse. But i been getting on with my life without her. Nah i think she saw it as an attempt to get back together, although i haven't contacted her for a couple of weeks and well basically after that wasn't going to. I only was thinking about her if she doesn't want to take it that way then. I guess their is nothing i can do about it.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 honestly, i think you just made things worse with that email. She probably took as if " good luck on your term without me ...heres my number as a lifeline cause i know youll need it" hence the "i dont need you anymore im doing perfectly fine" response from her. i'm inclined to agree with helioz, that's the way i'd have taken it up too from what you said. maybe if you'd worded it differently? too late now though..............don't bother responding to her email anyway, damage is done!
alwayssme Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 okay im sorry but she is being a b*tch....there is no need to act that way...u just sent her a freaking text saying you're there for her if she needs you... just don't contact her anymore.
BCCA Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 okay im sorry but she is being a b*tch....there is no need to act that way...u just sent her a freaking text saying you're there for her if she needs you... just don't contact her anymore. That was my thought as well. Calling you pathetic when you offered a helping hand? I mean, if youre text was worded in a douchebag way, then sure. But she just lashed out, probably because she feels bad and it makes it worse when the person you feel bad about hurting acts nicely toward you. Seems like she was hoping for a ' F U bit**!' response so she would feel vindicated. Piece of work...dont ever contact her or accept any contact from her again.
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