lastnight Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Ok so I'm feeling like I'm getting over my ex. I see that we weren't as compatible as I thought we were after the intiial breakup, you know those feelings of she's perfect for me, I'll never find anybody better etc etc. I'm doing ok but the one thing that gets to me is how things didn't really end in black and white, and when we split we're still capable of sitting and having amazing conversations at length for upwards of 2 hours on the phone. Trouble is it's not that I miss her so much, as being unable to comprehend how somebody can just fall out of your life. She says I am and will always be special to her, yet she's not initiated any contact since she broke things off. Just wondering how you get past this or make sense of it really. NC is doing me fine to help me move on I just question things like, was it ever real at all, did I really mean that little to her that she can quite easily get on with not being or knowing anything about my life. I'd love to think she's sitting there too proud to pick up the phone, wondering what I'm up to etc but I doubt she is.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 i know what you mean about hoping she's too proud to contact you. that's how i feel. i miss my ex so much and i can't understand either how someone can just let go like that. two months later i still haven't let go. sorry i can't help answer your question. but i'm glad you feel like you're getting over it all.
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