serenitylies Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 From my other posts, you can all tell that I am extremely confusing. My mind works in complex ways that I dont even know how to untangle. From previous threads, I have mentioned two guys in my life. One who is the one I loved and the other who is the one that was my best friend who liked me alot. To let you all know, those two relationships have ended. This triangle is no longer connected. I have detached myself from this triangle and gone my own way. I like to go out and have fun. I flirt, I tease. Thats just how I am. If I see that youre interesting or good looking, then I'd go up to you and talk. Other times, I am approached by guys. At the moment, I have three guys that occupy my time. One who lives in another state that comes to NY once in a while to visit family and friends. Two others who live by me. I met the OutOfState guy first on Christmas, and we had a thing that day. We keep in contact via phone, email and instant messaging. At times, he can be extremely needy and wants a lot of attention that sometimes, I dont have time to give him. And when I dont give him the attention he wants, he gets angry. What complicates things is that he has a girlfriend who happens to be my friend. So I think I should vote him out, no matter how much we like each other. One who I met at a friends birthday also has a girlfriend, but I dont know who she is. From what my friend told me, he talks to me differently from other girls. He calls me "darling" and "honey" and when he does, it makes me feel special, because all the other guys call me "babe" or "baby." I've conversed with him in person and when we dont see each other, we communicate through text and phone. And when I hear his voice, it makes me want to go find him and kiss him. The third guy is someone who randomly messaged me and said I looked familiar. I didnt know who he was, but we have mutual friends. So we started talking and we flirt with each other. We dont have too much in common at the moment, but Im sure we can find something in common--I hope. Only problem is, is that hes not as outgoing as I am. He doesnt like to dance or take pictures; whereas I do. I love being able to get on the dance floor, no matter the music, and dance. He likes to just sit. Ive seen him at the bar a few times, just standing there. For about 30 minutes he was standing at my table where I was hanging out with friends. I havent associated with him in person; only through text and he seems somewhat of a boring guy, but Im sure that the fun guy is somewhere in him. All he needs is a little help. I've never heard his voice. And theres a saying that you can tell alot from a person from the way they talk and the way they sound. 2009 has started off badly for me, but Im not willing to end it that way too. I want to be able to smile a real smile, instead of pretending like everythings ok, when theyre not. Like a friend said to me -- at the moment, Im on the high way and Im lost. All I need to do is look at the signs and Ill find my way back home. I've been on this highway for way too long and now, I am ready to start this journey and find my way home.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Here's what you do, terminate all contact with guy 1 and 2, while guy 3 you can keep around as a good buddy. Then get yourself a rental car for the meantime, so you're not trapped on the highway yourself. Best advice: how about not settling for a random guy who gives you attention but rather be with someone who at least likes you for you?
Author serenitylies Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 LOL - the highway part is figuritively speaking. And well, I cant cut contact because they treat me like I always wanted a guy to treat me. And as for guy 3, I'll be hearing his voice for the first time tonight. I honestly dont know what to expect from life right now.
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