heggs Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 Ok so 2 days ago i broke it off with my ex-gf told her it wasnt working, since the shes been msging me last night i got a msg from her - stating that i will always be her baby, that shell never forget our times and what we had, thank for being the best thing that will ever be in my life. ill miss your pretty face, i guess this is really the end. I love you etc Im sorta confused on what to do im still nice any suggestions - i want to reply but unsure
Hobineros Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 say it was great while it lasted, sorry to put you thru this pain, but its for the better. And leave it at that!
Frankasy Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 say it was great while it lasted, sorry to put you thru this pain, but its for the better. And leave it at that! Yeah. No point in dragging it.
malibustacydoll Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 That's a tough one. I would almost not reply. Honestly if I were her I would send something like that to an ex to try to get to their emotional side and I would want a reply-- then I would want to respond to that to start a conversation again. It may be kind of mean to not respond but it might be the best way for her to get the message that it is over.
Hobineros Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 Yah which is why you would want to make a closed statement in replying to her, such as my Earlier post. Sorry for your pain, but this is what i want! Peace. I just did that to a girl i was dating last week, and all she could reply is, "It is, what it is" Im like WOW! never expected that answer, lol...
Author heggs Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 Well the things is i saw her face to face and i told her I cant do this.. So i walked off for 2 days she msged me - last night that msg came through im yet to reply dont think i should have too, As i am now trying to heal. Any suggestions
birdie Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Well the things is i saw her face to face and i told her I cant do this.. So i walked off for 2 days she msged me - last night that msg came through im yet to reply dont think i should have too, As i am now trying to heal. Any suggestions you know her best. what will make her go away in the nicest possible way? choose that option
Hobineros Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 you shouldnt, just hit the delete key, and keep on healing. She will get the drift eventually...
Author heggs Posted January 17, 2009 Author Posted January 17, 2009 Ok so we meet up last night... she told me its not over and she cant let go etc what not, So i leave telling her this is best for her today be split and i got nc I asked her to hug me she said no i asked why - she replied i wont let go, so i leave since shes going out with her mate - whos been with her 4 days straight. NOW, after 5 months of seeing each other nearly each day, she walks in and i feel replaced by her, She tells her everything - but she admits she dosent, this is her only mate aswell, so her mate contacts me last night saying leave hailey alone shes over you... so i let that msg be, could this be her friends trying to get rid of me and feeding me lies, or coming from my ex its been 2 days, And my ex hasnt contacted me since in any way, seems to me avoiding me, Also on her face book profile still has the blog she wrote about me and the pictures of us... Any suggestions?
nature Posted January 17, 2009 Posted January 17, 2009 Aren't you wanting her to be over you and move on? In your first posts you said you told her it's over and you broke up with her and you don't want to respond to her text. But now you sound upset that she actually is moving on? Did you break up with her, or she with you?
Author heggs Posted January 18, 2009 Author Posted January 18, 2009 oh no im not upset, just trying to figure her out... shes still carrying on keep everything about me poems face book - all our pictures writing soppy stuff, that chicks do.
bubblegum Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 Ok so we meet up last night... she told me its not over and she cant let go etc what not, So i leave telling her this is best for her today be split and i got nc I asked her to hug me she said no i asked why - she replied i wont let go, so i leave since shes going out with her mate - whos been with her 4 days straight. NOW, after 5 months of seeing each other nearly each day, she walks in and i feel replaced by her, She tells her everything - but she admits she dosent, this is her only mate aswell, so her mate contacts me last night saying leave hailey alone shes over you... so i let that msg be, could this be her friends trying to get rid of me and feeding me lies, or coming from my ex its been 2 days, And my ex hasnt contacted me since in any way, seems to me avoiding me, Also on her face book profile still has the blog she wrote about me and the pictures of us... Any suggestions? How did meeting up come about? Did you contact her back? Who suggested meeting up?
Geishawhelk Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 oh no im not upset, just trying to figure her out... shes still carrying on keep everything about me poems face book - all our pictures writing soppy stuff, that chicks do. Never ever try to figure anyone out, or second-guess what they're doing, particularly if they are in a fragile state. You have to go complete NC. The more you reply to her, respond, or see her, the more you will screw with her mind and mess her emotions up. It doesn't matter that she's doing the running. Don't throw her breadcrumbs or yank her chain. Leave her well alone, and make like she doesn't exist. You'll be doing her a favour, believe me.
Chinook Posted January 19, 2009 Posted January 19, 2009 Unsurprisingly, I agree with Geishawhelk. You ended the relationship. You need to give her time to come to terms with that and to catch up with the point you are at and realising that it wouldn't work. She will get there, it will just take time and the more you contact her, the longer it will take.
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