redant Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 It seems that when I date someone and we become intimate closer etc. It is uncomfortable to me when the guy talks about his future like his career plans or where he wants to live. I'm looking to build a future with someone and to hear their dreams etc and I am not included it's just weird maybe hurtful. Of course it may be new start and we don't know yet but I do know I don't want to be alone and It seems as if men can discuss there future in terms of being alone.
dreamergrl Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 It seems that when I date someone and we become intimate closer etc. It is uncomfortable to me when the guy talks about his future like his career plans or where he wants to live. I'm looking to build a future with someone and to hear their dreams etc and I am not included it's just weird maybe hurtful. Of course it may be new start and we don't know yet but I do know I don't want to be alone and It seems as if men can discuss there future in terms of being alone. You need to take a few steps back and slow down. You've only been dating for a few months, not long enough to know if it's going to grow that far. Most people don't want to be alone, but you should be able to be secure and happy enough with yourself to be able to be alone.
Author redant Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 thanks dreamer yea sometimes i think it might be easier to be alone at least I have ME!
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