Knight_Ctrl Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 Since the other day when my ex came into work I broke NC so I could politely ask her not to come down here and all she had to say about it was "its a public library, and I needed the printer for school". There is another place no more than 10 mins down the road she could go that I DON'T work at.....Once again she is showing no consideration whatsoever about my feelings......she also said she'd have to be down a few more times until her project is done. Now here I am worrying the whole time I'm here that she is going to walk in that door any second......and I'm just waiting for that old fashioned stabbed in the chest feeling. You all know the one.......what do I do...
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 I'd definitly do some if I had some.......but right now I have to deal with this without aid......damn.
lonelygurl Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 I just want to understand.....she is coming to the public library where you work??? that is not very nice of her if she is. I don't understand why people can be so cruel. First they stab you in the heart and now she is twisting it around and around. Not very respectful of your feelings and I would say you are much better off without her. I wish there was a way you could avoid those feelings of anxiousness, but I have to agree if it gets out of hand I would consider talking to a doctor. There is nothing wrong with short term medication help, especially if it is effecting your concentration at work.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 Yeah, I work at this public library. There really is another one down the road she could go to easy........she didn't come in yesterday like I was expecting her to, so she may not come down today. If she does I'm going to give her the times of this other library and ask her to go to that one.........I wish after everything she has done to me that she could at least AT LEAST not do this to me.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 While I am with you knight and think she SHOULD be going to a different library, there's a high chance she won't for a few reasons. A). She probably doesn't want to be told what to do. B). She will probably go to yours just to spite you, naturally. C). Combination of those two.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 I was considering just outright buying her a printer, leaving it on her doorstep or something to eliminate her reason for coming down.....
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 don't buy her a printer. she doesn't deserve anything more from you! i know it sounds like an easy answer, but really, do you want to give her anything more after how she's treated you? especially when she's being so horrible to you. i know it's hard, and seeing her sets you back, but i think it will get easier. she's not going to change her actions just because you want her to. she clearly doesn't want to.
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