BlueHarvest Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 So, quick question here. Two times in the past month she's said this. First time: I said something kind of witty about a subject we were talking about (names for an art gallery/shop) and I called it a nickname of what I thought it would turn out to be. She responded "Oh my god! That's awesome! I love you!" In that context I just thought the "I love you" was not meant to be taken seperately or literally, more to be meant as a colloquial "I love you" then an emotional one. Second time: (YESTERDAY) I brought her, her favorite dish (scalloped potatoes) while she was at work. And a dessert. When she found out about what I had brought her she got this look of a kid in a candy shop and said "Oh my gosh! I love you!" Should I take these sayings literally? I haven't said I love her yet. But given the context and the situation I don't think she was truly saying "I love you" in the meaning that we all know. Or maybe she was, and I'm just one big dense idiot. Thoughts?
carhill Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 Stop over-analyzing Go back and re-read your past threads and you'll see why I said that...
EYECANDY000 Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 It sounds like she is just use to using those words very loosely.
prettybaby Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 I wouldn't take it literally. She's just one of those chicks who say stupid lines like that because they think it's cute. Does she say it with a squeeky high pitched voice and an exaggerated facial expression?
likestolaugh Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 oh, ok then. yeah, don't take it seriously then. Like has been said, she just uses it as a general expression of happiness.
Author BlueHarvest Posted January 16, 2009 Author Posted January 16, 2009 Stop over-analyzing Go back and re-read your past threads and you'll see why I said that... Yea I realize I'm over-analyzing car. I just feel like I'm at a lull in the relationship. I mean at 3 months in what should I expect? What should she expect? Everything feels like it's extremely good and extremely bad at the same time. I don't know how to move foward from here. So I'm over-analyzing everything trying to figure out the best solution on how to move foward.
Confusedalways Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 I don't know... if she didn't say things like that before and its more of a recent thing maybe she's trying to tell you something. Kind of like ease her way into it. I feel like that'd be something I'd do, to kinda gauge your reaction and maybe tune you in.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Is she your gf? It sounds more like an expression, like " Oh MY GOD" that sort of thing. We girls tend to exaggerate alot, so you males need not to always overanalyze.
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