saturnsfall Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 I've been dealing with NC. New number, blocked email. It's sad, but I just want to move on. The part that bothers me is how he never apologized. I took responsibility for the mistakes I made and apologized. But he never apologized. He was so mean at the end, then cd back and dragged me through the mud a second time. I don't know, maybe he tried emailing which I won't get because I blocked him, but he's heartless. I'm sad mad at him for saying such hurtful things to me, coming back and leaving again. He said he knows I'll call one day. That's why I exited his life and blocked him from my life. I won't call, and when my eyes get teary, I don't let the tears fall. I'm not shedding another tear over him. There's nothing worthwhile I would say to him. Nothing.
trueblue72ny Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 I hope you stay strong and dont prove him right about calling. He sounds pretentious to me.
lonelygurl Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 It is sad but at the end I think they focus so much on the negative and put all the blame on us that they fail to remember that there were many things that they did wrong as well. It takes two in a relationship. I have started a list of all the negatives and things he didn't do that he could have to make things better. When he left, he left me a note blaming my depression/disorders, but my counselor said that is just a load of crap. It goes much deeper than that. I was putting some effort into the relationship for a bit and he wasn't. Then I became ill and when I saw he really wasn't trying I pretty much gave up. Then in therapy I rediscussed whether I should break up with him or try repairing it again, and had decided I wanted to try repairing it one more time, but by then I had left it too late. I'm sorry how he hurt you and was so mean.
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