stovepipe Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 my best friend who i was seeing decided to call it quits recently...i like everyone else initially tried to do whatever i could to make things work, it just wasn't working. She started sending me all kinds of mixed signals, acting crazy confusing the hell out of me. Never leaving me alone and always texting me. She had been incredibly mean recently, telling me she needed me as a friend and when i tell her i just want some time to be able to do that, she would then change her mind and tell me she couldn't be my friend because things wouldn't be the same anymore. Why torcher ourselves. Anyhow, she keeps contacting me, now emails at work. Baiting me in like she's being friendly....only to make me feel like i did something wrong and hating me a few emails later. I finally got her to talk to me today, I made her explain herself because what she was doing was mean. She said to me, you always told me its easier to hate someone to get over them. I asked her again what she was doing and she said that she didn't know what to do, she didn't know if she should just cut all ties...she tried but she couldn't stop herself from contacting me. We talked and I told her that I wanted to be her friend. Maybe not the best idea but I think I can do it. Granted I'm not going to be the friend I was before, I'm not contacting her, if she needs me for emotional support from her divorce I'm there for her, but I'm going to make it so I'm not always available to talk to her. Im going to do my best to try to make it work. We were best friends before this, she was who i turned to for relationship advice, she was who i turned to when i was having problems all before we started seeing one another. I dated a bunch of girls over the years while we were friends. Its not going to be the same friendship it was, not for now anyway. I would like to get back together with her but thats on her terms. I'm not pushing I wont even be contacting her. Im almost dreading posting this because I have a feeling nobody will think its a good idea
Author stovepipe Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 she was diagnosed as being bipolar... i guess this explains a lot...
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