I am a teen girl and I need ! I broke up with him but miss him so much!!!!! :(

[Missing_Him]

I am a Junior in High school and im 17. My ex goes to the same school as me and is 18. I liked him forever before we dated and finally he asked me out. well we dated for 2 months and unfortuanately i broke up with him 3 days after thanksgiving on his birthday. Which I no was horrible. But i broke up with him because i was very confused. I just didnt no what i wanted. But it has been almost 2 months since we split and I miss him so much. I guess I have come across vulnerable to him. There for a while I begged for him back. . Now he likes my best friend, or says he does, and I am telling him to go for it and acting like it doesnt bother me. He says he loves me to death but just as a friend.....Could he still have feelings for me or does he really just wanna be friends?

 

I go crazy inside when I see him and we still txt and talk to each other on the phone so I am so confused,,,

 

please help.

[Blondi26]

It really wasn't a good idea to dump him on his birthday, but I know you know that already.

 

High school relationships are really tough. Guys are so immature at this age. Most people are young and don't really know who they are or what they want. And even if you make it through high school, people go to separate colleges and usually split up. In my graduating class, I can only think of a few couples that are still together.

 

You should just concentrate on yourself and having fun. Go out with your friends and date around.

 

Maybe he does like your friend. Or maybe he really just wants to make you jealous. The begging probably turned him off to you, though. Guys tend to hate needy/clingy women. I think you're doing it right by acting that it doesn't bother you when he hangs out with your friend. (And if she is a true friend she won't date your leftovers). Act like you don't need him, try to find another guy to pursue, and try to get real busy so you don't talk to him as much. (You don't want to fall into friend territory). If you start acting less interested, he may just come sniffing around.

[D-Lish]

For sure act less interested... His ego is probably bruised after being dumped. He's young, so he'll be affected if you distance yourself. I also know you're young, and probably won't distance yourself (even though it would benefit you). Guys that age really, really want what they think they can't have.

 

Right now he knows he can have you.

 

If your best friend was any type of friend at all~ she wouldn't date him.

Him expressing the desire to do so is wrong on so many levels. I hope she isn't reciprocating the desire to date him as well.

 

If you want to learn how to catch a guy's attention- make him think you are over him.