confused_2008 Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 I'm just wondering if there's anybody on these boards that didn't really have a desire to date in their younger years (and by that I mean into their early twenties). The reason I ask is that I often feel that way. It's like I'm really into the idea of being in a relationship and having that bond and companionship, but when I start spending too much time with somebody and it begins to move in that direction, I get annoyed and just want to be alone again. I suppose the obvious problem here is a commitment issue, but could it be that I just haven't been meeting the right people? I'm pretty picky on who I date and if I don't see a lot of potential, I don't even bother with the girl because I don't want to risk hurting her down the road. This is a problem because if there's ever a girl that I do get interested in, I don't have a lot of dating experience and usually mess it up I get out with friends quite a bit, so that's good, but I'm going to be done with college soon and can't keep going on like this forever. Just wondering what people's thoughts are.
CommitmentPhobe Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 I've had phases like that. If you don't feel like it don't, it's not like you're obligated to.
D-Jam Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 The only requirement we all have is to be honest with ourselves and one another. We're not required to find a mate just because we hit puberty and are adults.
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