seaworthycomb Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 I met this girl a few months ago and we seemed to get along alright. however each day that went by we talked less and less. now were at the point where we don't speak at all or even say hi in the halls. when ever she goes by me she starts to walk faster and dosn't make eye contact and when i go by her she'll look in the other direction. is she completely repulsed or is she just shy.
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 honestly........not sure bro. Im sorta in the same situation as you....I'd like an answer to this as well.
carhill Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Talk to and be seen with other girls. Win-win
fivefive Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 dude im in the same position as you..women r really hard 2 understand lol...but the thing is i'll say something to reinitiate contact and she'll be so happy and be like, "oooo we never talk anymore!" and this is confusin because if she wanted to talk y couldnt she say hi or somethin..idk i dont understand it..it seems im the one always intiating contact to break the ice and now idk wat to do because if i do it again i'll seem 2 needy and desperate so idk wat 2 do
The Collector Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Generally you have to make a move quite early on or she'll lose interest. Rarely is it because they are shy. Chalk it up to experience and move on, or ask for a date and see what happens.
Author seaworthycomb Posted January 23, 2009 Author Posted January 23, 2009 heres some advice for all you guys that are in a similar position as me. if you like a girl then talk to her as much as possible and ask her out as soon as possible. the girl i liked we stoped talking but she knew i liked her and because i waited so long she thought i was a creeper. ASK THEM OUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE lesson learned i guess on my part
alphamale Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 ...and dosn't make eye contact ... people generally look at things they like and avoid looking at things they don't
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