Knight_Ctrl Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 So to those of you that don't know. My ex came into my work yesterday. I work at a library so I can't very well ban her and tell her not to come in. Needless to say I kinda wigged out and took my lunch break, sat in my car, and drove away when she waved to me. Today while I was getting ready for worked we had the following text convo. Me: Hey, I can't tell you what or what not do do, but can you avoid the library until I quit in august? I understand if you need it for school...but can you do at least that for me? Her: Its a public library, I needed it for school. I'm going to need to use it a couple more times as well, your the only place with a printer. Me: So if i bought you a printer you'd stay away? Her: Wow... ... I'm seriously considering buying her one, printers are cheap and it would eliminate all logical reason for her to see me....should I? I can't deal with coming into work every day knowing she might show up....I'm at work right now and she could show up any second...I cant handle that..
bubblegum Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Can't she go to the library during your off-hours? By telling her how difficult it is to see her, you're telling her that you're still all caught up in her. What are your intentions for letting her know this?
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 my intentions are that she apparently wasn't honest with me so I wanted to try and be honest with her. my off hours are in the morning only and it would be rough for her to try and get down here then before I come to work. I feel stuck, part of the reason we hooked up in the first place was because I worked here. She hasn't considered my feelings at all in this problem, so why should she start now...I feel like I' m stuck having to worry daily if she'll come in or not.
bubblegum Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Ok, well you've basically told her you aren't over her. Don't do anything else at this point. If you buy her a printer you'll have to see her to give it to her, and then you'll resent the heck out of her when/if she just takes it and that's that. It'll make you feel worse in the long run. If she has any decency at all, and doesn't want to get back with you, and doesn't want to hurt you further, she won't come in when you're at work. If she does come in, you'll know how awful she really is. So what if it's tough for her to come in to use a printer in the morning. She must have a friend with a printer...
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 Ok, well you've basically told her you aren't over her. Don't do anything else at this point. If you buy her a printer you'll have to see her to give it to her, and then you'll resent the heck out of her when/if she just takes it and that's that. It'll make you feel worse in the long run. If she has any decency at all, and doesn't want to get back with you, and doesn't want to hurt you further, she won't come in when you're at work. If she does come in, you'll know how awful she really is. So what if it's tough for her to come in to use a printer in the morning. She must have a friend with a printer... A friend, or at the very least she could drive 10 mins down the road to use the OTHER library I DON'T work at to print things........I'm literally like 50 seconds down the street from her but you're right. After EVERYTHING she has done to me she could at least grant me this one thing and not come into where I work....I think if she comes in here again I'm going to confront her face to face about it.
bubblegum Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Ten mins down the street? Oh geez, she was messing with you by coming in and it has worked. Don't confront her if she comes in, that'll only feed her ego all the more.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 It just drives me nuts knowing that the entire time we were together she seemed so down to earth, as if she knew even if we hadn't of broken up, that this **** was unacceptable. Why would she choose NOW to mess with my head like this, so close to when I was almost over her......or at least getting there.
bubblegum Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 I know, it's awful. Have you had any more contact with her since this last one you wrote about here?
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