schewter Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Anyone know how I can get into an Email account on a computer I do not have access to...just a hotmail Email?
jwi71 Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Anyone know how I can get into an Email account on a computer I do not have access to...just a hotmail Email? That's illegal. But if you wanted to capture all the keystrokes (including passwords and user names) typed on YOUR OWN PC...then you could install a keylogger. A keylogger simply logs every key pressed...they are easy to use and freely available. Again, it is illegal to install such on a PC you do NOT own. Illegal in the US anyway.
Owl Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Also...most hotmail accounts have a "security question"...and while you may not know the pw...you might well know the security question. People tend to have strong pw's, but weak security question answers.
Author schewter Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 Thanks...I know all about keyloggers but that won't help here...if anything is going on it is going on at work so I'd need to hack into OM's Email acct. to see what he's sending or receiving if anything. I couldn't even venture a guess as to PW since I don't even know the guy...I'll either figure it out, get past, or go crazy...
Owl Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 OK, sure bet that hacking his account is illegal. So using that as "proof" could well get you more than you're hoping for. Why not focus on getting that proof on your wife's side of things? Probably MUCH safer for you.
Author schewter Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 Y'know Owl...not even sure if it's proof I'm after...would dearly love to see everything that transpired over the course of the event just to basically fact check I suppose (I think the OM would save all)...would also enjoy seeing if this guy is at it with someone else yet (seems to be his game)...I actually don't really think anything is still happening but of course I didn't really think anything WAS happening in the 1st place. She is more herself now and it was her that came clean to begin with and it was just an EA so...logically wouldn't make sense for her to be at it...guess I'm just lookin' to screw with the guy...closure?? Couldn't get at her work pc...secure office environment.
jwi71 Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Y'know Owl...not even sure if it's proof I'm after...would dearly love to see everything that transpired over the course of the event just to basically fact check I suppose (I think the OM would save all)...would also enjoy seeing if this guy is at it with someone else yet (seems to be his game)...I actually don't really think anything is still happening but of course I didn't really think anything WAS happening in the 1st place. She is more herself now and it was her that came clean to begin with and it was just an EA so...logically wouldn't make sense for her to be at it...guess I'm just lookin' to screw with the guy...closure?? Couldn't get at her work pc...secure office environment. Great question OP...What ARE you trying to accomplish? Proof that the A is ongoing? Proof that it was PA and EA? Proof that he was a player (presumably to inform W)? The first two are about trust. You don't trust its over because they still have means of communication - means you CANNOT monitor. In fact, you rightfully SHOULDN'T trust her given her history. However...what can you realistically do? You cannot surreptitiously monitor her work PC nor be her 24x7 shadow. The point I want you to realize (and I'm sure you have) is that you CANNOT monitor her 24x7...its too easy to have access to him and vice versa. What I would do is force her to resign her job, cancel her cell phone and revoke all internet. If she changes jobs the ONLY way for them to have contact is for HER to contact HIM from her new job. So the first small trust is: at her new job, you trust she will NOT contact him again. And if she does contact him that's pretty much all the "answer" you need. The last one is punishment in my book. I get the need to say "See, it was nothing to HIM. You were one of many". It is meant to belittle her. I get it. Its not necessary. She may reach that conclusion on her own and the constant little "reminders" DON'T help. You cannot hope to play marriage police. Put that onus on her. She gets to go to work, store, out with friends. But she must check in. Reasonable intervals. She gets NO cell phone. If it takes her 30 minutes to commute to work and back...then she better call you from home when she arrives. You get the idea. You impose whatever YOU need to build the trust. And yeah, she'll pretty much hate and fight and bitch and moan. Tough. She broke it, she fixes it. This is isn't about you being marriage cop - its HER proving she is worthy of return. And the OM. Nothing. He is nothing. Forget him. Put that energy into your self, your W and your M. You gotta let him go to move on. In time, it makes sense. My .02...well, that was kinda wordy so maybes its my .03 cents.
Nomad1 Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 I would not do it as it is illegal....BUT, technically.... keylogger can capture any key stroke, including passwords then Hotmail accounts can be configured to send copies of all emails sent or received from any account to a designated email account !
Standbyou Posted January 16, 2009 Posted January 16, 2009 Keylogger works fine.My husband use it installed on my computer. it works perfect. But of cause i allow him touch my computer. But first of all,you can get use his computer as often. Can you get use his computer? You have to install keylogger sofware on his computer first. then it will record everything he typed. and when you want get sth you want,you have to use his computer and read it ,or use USB drive to copy everything . Can you use his computer ? If you not get allowed use his computer and installed some software on his computer,then you will sent into jail... Good luck
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