john yogurt Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 ok so im 15 and there is this girl that i cant get out of my head. i only have one class with her and it is my worst class. i dont know who made my teacher such a cold hard bitch but i cant help it. so i have to focus in class almost 24/7 but there is this one girl in there who is just amazing! she has the prettiest eyes i have ever seen but she is in with all of the popular kids and im not. her best friend in that class is another guy that i cannot get along with no matter how hard i try. ive talked with her a little but not enuff to go up and just start talking to her. im willing to do whatever it would take to make her and mine relationship work but my best friend had a thing for her last year. now i know he dasnt like her any more and they never actualy did anything but i cant help to feel gilty about it because i like her now.she das somtimes flirt with me but she is a known flirt. im realy at a loss at what to do so plz help me out!!!!!!!
Milos Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Hey mate, read this blog. It helped me out when I was going through stuff like that. www.howtogetdates.wordpress.com You just want to relax, and be having fun. Nothing is more attractive than that. And TALK TO HER. haha, she's not psychic. When you're in a good mood or what not, just go up and say hi, start chatting away. It'll go well, trust. When you see her, throw her a smile. . Don't wait for the perfect moment because it might not ever come. Just put yourself out there and see what happens.
windows Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 You're 15 and what is she? about your age? Popular kids? Schoolyard politics? She has a best guyfriend? I understand you. I was in a similar situation to you a while ago. I'm over that girl now. Although she is wonderful, I manned up, asked her out got rejected and now I can just accept it. It's not whether she would reject you or not that is the problem; the problem is that you need to reconcile your feelings for her. End it with a rejection (don't say it's impossible to get over her) or maybe she'd say yes. Perfect opportunities usually don't just appear. And even when they do; are you man enough to do it? If you want to know her better; don't be afraid to talk to her. It's not a sin to make a friend who just happens to be the opposite gender. Your friend had a thing for her? did they have a relationship or did she reject him? if thats true she's fair game. If you need to know her better first then just talk to her. Nothing's wrong with chatter (unless the teacher starts bitching on you) and remember this most importantly; if she really is important to you - closure is the most important thing.
prettybaby Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Yeah, don't even think about asking her out or anything for now. Your first goal is getting to know her better. So talk to her, be relaxed, chat about whatever; be it class, music, movies, hobbies, whatever. Then once you two are somewhat friends, you can start considering your next goal, which would be getting closer and asking her out. But I wouldn't worry about that just yet. Think in steps. And take it step by step.
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