GloryDays Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 As much as no contact kills us...I've also found that NC is sometimes better then the battles. You know what I mean? The fighting can be so much more stressful then nothing at all. On the other hand, I wish it were different and things could be worked through. *Sigh* just trying to stay positive doing the NC thing.
Author GloryDays Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 I wanted to add...I think I was doing better with NC when I thought he'd try and contact me again...since that's what all my friends and family told me. Now that he hasn't and it's almost been a week...I am becoming more upset over it.
GoneButNotForgotten Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 A lot of NC starts that way. You really just want them to contact you. And after it doesn't happen in the timeframe that you expected, it can really hurt. Once you get passed it though, is when you really start to heal.
saturnsfall Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 I feel the same way. Only difference, I changed my phone number and blocked his email. I know it's best we don't talk, so I've shut him out. He's bitter now, but this is to protect me against that one day, the day he decides he wants to say hi. The stress isn't worth it, and exiting his life as quick as I did was the best thing I've done. Sure, sometimes I want to call, but I know there really is no point. I just want to be happy as I'm sure you do. NC is the nest thing for you. Don't view it as your loss and your sadness. He can no longer be with you, and that's what matters. The focus is on you. Only allow people in your life who respect you and treat you well. It's his loss. Don't forget that. His loss.
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