not_a_happy_camper Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 i know this is a stupid post. i just got a text from my ex. which was meant for his best friend, call him M. i just texted back straight away "i'm not M". without thinking. why have i got the shakes? this is ridiculous. nothing important in text, just hey M, how much would that cost. but i'd been thinking of him, tomorrow is his dad's anniversary. bloody message wasn't even meant for me. and i'm still weirded out by it.
D-Lish Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 How do you know the message wasn't meant to stir the pot? does your name start with an M too? It sounds fishy. I have only once sent a text in error. Betcha he knew what he was doing...
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 no, his best friend is MM, my initials completely different. he usually texts off the net, possible he hit wrong name? i dunno why he'd bother stirring the pot as such, when all i've gotten from him in 6 weeks NC was happy christmas msg. he point blank ignored me in a bar week before that, turned in other direction so he wouldn't have to say hello feeling better now though.............think it was the shock of his number turning up when i was not expecting it.................and that i replied hastily plus that was an hour ago and he hasn't replied. not that my response warranted a reply!
D-Lish Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 hmm, it doesn't sound like a mistake. Have you ever done that in error? I haven't! Sorry it has stirred up feelings:(
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 can't say i have actually ever texted anyone in error, unless i sat on my phone! that has happened! i actually purposely deleted his number ages ago, even though i know it by heart, just so i wouldn't be tempted to do something i'd regret it's only really stirred up a wish for him to contact me again. properly. i won't be the first to contact him. i just don't know why he'd bother sending something like that. it's pointless.
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted January 14, 2009 Author Posted January 14, 2009 he texted me again today to say sorry. i texted saying it's fine. which i know i probably shouldn't have done. but it's his dad's anniversary today. i just remember how upset he was this time last year. i dunno that i want to be there to hold his hand. not when he doesn't want me there. i got two missed calls on sunday from an unknown number, leaving no message...............silly, but i can't help wondering was it him, even though i'll never know.
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 i made a boo-boo texting him back didn't i? i feel really stupid
diskey23 Posted January 15, 2009 Posted January 15, 2009 i dont think it was a mistake, you replied like anybody else in his phone would. well i guess it was a mistake if its now kickin' you ass. i agree though, i think he sent it on purpose.
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted January 15, 2009 Author Posted January 15, 2009 thanks diskey. i just can't see a point in him sending it on purpose. i'd love to know why if that was the case, but no one else can answer that question. not kickin my ass so much bout first time i replied to tell him i got a message meant for someone else. just shouldn't have bothered sending reply to the second one. i was just surprised he sent another one, thought other one was the end of it. such a silly thing for me to be thinking over.........need a job!
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