turquoisedream87 Posted January 13, 2009 Posted January 13, 2009 Ive been seeing this guy scince the end of september and pretty much scince day 1 we have spent all of our time together we had sex early on and have been haveing sex pretty much every day for a while now and its like when we are alone together the way he makes me feel so good and the way he kisses me I know he feels something for me but today i finaly asked him pretty much to define the relationship and he tells me that he really likes me but hes a bad boyfriend and he doesnt feel i motivate him enough like that **** right there hurt me really ****in bad because you dont spend that much time with somebody and make love to them evry night for you to just say u want nothing more than that like I think he is so selfish for letting me get so attached he should have been upfront with me instead of leading me on, i have a feeling its also becuase he doesnt aheva job right now and i have a car n **** too like its so ****ed up he knows that i was in an abusive relationship almost 2 years ago and ive never had feelings for nebody scince him i let my guard down and i got hurt idk what to do know, he says he doesnt want to stop spending time with me he says he loves my company but i dont know if i can just except that
AlektraClementine Posted January 13, 2009 Posted January 13, 2009 "enjoys your company" and "likes spending time with you" are nicer ways of saying "i want to keep using your body to get myself off". You've been told by the horse himself that he does not want a relationship. That's that. Either accept it and use him for the same purposes (not a good option as you clearly want more). Or move on. Like, now.
Geishawhelk Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 Yup. You are convenient and useful. That's about it really. I completely concur with what Alektra has advised. Either use him for the same purpose with no other thing in mind - or shove him to the kerb.
birdie Posted January 14, 2009 Posted January 14, 2009 never ever date a man that doesn't have a job and relies on other people to take him around because he can't be bothered to sort himself out. that's a sure sign of a user. everything you say above confirms that.
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