JohnAnt Posted January 13, 2009 Posted January 13, 2009 Hi friends, I did not know where to go and what to do.. I want to share my feelings.. I am John Philip, age 29, working as software engineer in chennai.. I got married on June 12 2008. It was a love marriage. I and my wife loved for about 18 months before marriage.. Her character is totally different from me. But I love her very much. She is very soft and very ill responsible. She does not care about anything and anybody. She is only interested in Spiritual activities. I thought that she will change after marriage. But after marriage she does not shown interested in anything even does not care about myself. I was short tempered person. many times i got angry and shout at her. She is always silent and does not respond me. It makes me more angry on her. But i love her very much. She does not understand myself. After three months of my marriage she went out from my home. It hurts a lot for me. Her mother told that she went to Bangalore and staying in her family friend's home. My mother in law and her her family was very angry on me and does not responding me. Her family is very rich and my family is middle class only. Her family members not even respond my family members. 3 months are gone. Till now i did not receive any message or call from my wife. My mother in law does not give the address or contact number of her. They never understand my feelings. They are telling that she was very upset of my behaviours and she always praying to god in Bangalore. They also asked me to wait till she comes... But my wife is not responding for last 92 days. We loved each other for around 2 years. What was she thinking and why she does not responding till now?. Am staying alone in a mansion in chennai. I was badly insulted before my neighbours and office colleagues. Even I was waiting for my wife will return. But how long it will take? Every day and night i am suffering a lot. I realized all my mistakes and short temper characters and i stopped it. Why everybody hating me? Please tell me what to do.. I was not able to concentrate on any work. Every time am thinking about how is my wife?, whether she eating well or not?, when she will call me?... Friends please suggest me what i have to do next?
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