moveon Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 My b/f brokeup with me 3 months ago, and we had no contact since. He didn't even reply to my email & text when I sent it to him to wish him merry Xmas. I thought that he has already moved on. Since the breakup, I still think of him everyday and still miss him, but the pain is far less than the first couple of week after the breakup. Recently, I saw his blog, he said he loves me forever. I don't understand why he said that after 3 months later, but he didn't try to contact me or anything. I'm really confused why he said that. Is he trying to relate a message to me ? or is he just try to get out his feeling ? From a guys perspective, what is he trying to prove ? Should I respond to him ?
IcemanJB Posted January 13, 2009 Posted January 13, 2009 If he says he loves you, he does. He probably loves you enough to not hurt you by contacting you! He for whatever reason didn't think it was worth continuing the relationship. My ex and I had contact (mostly her initiating) for a month and half after the breakup, and it was obvious we were BOTH getting hurt by it. She claims the breakup was mutual - but in reality she broke it off. Anyways, I told her to stop the contact two months ago until I contact her first - because I CARE about her; and I was sick of getting hurt. I know it's always easier said than done, but you gotta try and move on. Don't respond to him, you'll only get hurt. That ball is in his court right now, and he doesn't feel as if the relationship should go on - for now. Improve yourself, and maybe down the road...
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