Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 My ex just walked into my work, guys **** what do I do........ shes just sitting right around the corner.........my heart feels like its going to explode...what the hell guys. Seriously....... I might have a heart attack.
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Are there any reasons why she should be there?
lostsoulmate Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 is she still there, was she there to see you?
wuggle Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 how about saying "Hello, how are you keeping, your looking great"
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 No, shes gone now. I went on my break. Sat in my car. She came out to get some stuff out of her car, she waved I gave a quick wave back and then I drove away. **** this. I work at a library she was using the computer, what I don't understand is she has 2 computers at her own damn place, why did she need to come down here.
lovingalways Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 maybe to see you.... EDIT: some girls are wicked like that.... some girls do it....
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 I have kept strict N/C since december 27th. Haven't talked to her one bit. Why the hell does she feel the need to do this now. I was starting to get better, slowly........I don't even know how I feel...............................****
bubblegum Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Has she tried contacting you at all since the 27th?
dazedconfused Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 She's still interested in you.. and wants to see how your doing if you want her to fall for you again all you have to do is show her that youve moved on.. dont panic when you see her just play it calm and cool. She wanted to see how you are coping with the breakup as well. If you do want her back, she just gave you a window of opportunity. Text her something like hey sorry i didnt really get to say hi or really see you would you want to maybe get dinner or something and catch up? She will say yes. But if your scared and dont want her back then keep doing what ur doing
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 She's still interested in you.. and wants to see how your doing if you want her to fall for you again all you have to do is show her that youve moved on.. dont panic when you see her just play it calm and cool. She wanted to see how you are coping with the breakup as well. If you do want her back, she just gave you a window of opportunity. Text her something like hey sorry i didnt really get to say hi or really see you would you want to maybe get dinner or something and catch up? She will say yes. But if your scared and dont want her back then keep doing what ur doing No, I can't believe that she is interested in me. She broke up with me and left me for my friend. I don't think I want her back. I'm scared, confused, angry. I don't know what I wanna do.
dazedconfused Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Sadly as crazy as it may seem she is still interested... thats 1 of 5 tell tale signs of interest in women... As far as how u feel scared? Its no wonder she left you for your friend regrow the pair u use to have and walk around like you own them... lol But i will tell you this u need to figure out how u feel about her because chances are this window wont be open much longer... I know ur confused but look at it this way would your life be better with her in it or with her not in it... based off of your n/c since dec 27th u obviously are mad about the break up and need either closure or another opportunity u decide no1 can do that for u
lostsoulmate Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 You should go on like it never happened. If, like you say, she has two computers at home, why did she come to your work? Quit playing the game. Put the pieces down and box it up. Start looking at life as an outdoor event. No games, just places to be and things to do.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 Sadly as crazy as it may seem she is still interested... thats 1 of 5 tell tale signs of interest in women... As far as how u feel scared? Its no wonder she left you for your friend regrow the pair u use to have and walk around like you own them... lol But i will tell you this u need to figure out how u feel about her because chances are this window wont be open much longer... I know ur confused but look at it this way would your life be better with her in it or with her not in it... based off of your n/c since dec 27th u obviously are mad about the break up and need either closure or another opportunity u decide no1 can do that for u I was 1000% fine before the breakup. I wasn't to awfully clingy or anything. She left me for my friend.......I don't know why. I still don't buy into that she is interested in me. I don't want to even start to think about that. If she is, then I'm sure she'll try to contact me in another way. Via email, phone call, text or something. Until this happens I'm unconvinced that she has an interest in me. But even if she does, I don't know if I can go though something like this again.......for the same reason I'm not dating anyone else right now. I won't do this to myself again......
bubblegum Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Well, she's interested in something, who knows what. But otherwise she wouldn't have gone there. I think you're right, let her contact you if she wants. Especially if she's with another guy.
wuggle Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 OK, don't. Forget she was there. Noone is forcing you , not even her. Ignore her and get on with your life. You only have to do what makes you feel happy, not her. take care
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 Its been a little over an hour since I saw her.......during the experiance I didn't cry. Get upset (sad) or even feel like I wanted to tear up. Its kind of refreshing knowing now that I genuinely want nothing to do with her. I was considering if she wanted to get back. And after what she's done to me I realize I owe her nothing. And I wont do this to myself again......at least knowing there would be a great chance that it would happen.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 Does it remind me of how I miss her........yes, because a bunch of little things that I was able to forget until now are coming back to me. A set back...yeah, and I sure as hell hope she doesn't come back in again any time soon at all. I can't tell her not to come in here..its a public place. I can ask her but I can't make her.
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