valleygirl Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Heres my problem in a nutshell! I met my now ex through mutual(1 knew first) male friends we dated, married 7 yrs, 9yr daughter and ultimately divorced 3 years ago (he an alcoholic without any responsibilities)! I've been single 3 yrs dated a couple guys a few times problem is. He had a new girlfriends 6 months after leaving they've been living together a year and a half. I've been sleeping with the original mutual friend who is one of my ex's best friends since June.. We're very close have been good friends for 20 years, we text daily, talk on the phone several times weekly and see each other often we have a great time together! Now im at the point where I believe it's time to fess up and tell my ex and start spending time together in public! The male friend is afraid that he may lose his friend! I firmly believe that my ex shouldn't be offemded he's moved on ain't it time for the rest of us to do the same? We live in a small town where everyone knows each other! What's the public opinion? Come out of the closet? Or break it off? I'm really sarting to care for this man and have genuine feelings for him if we can't deal with it im gonna get hurt again? I need some advice thanks
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