Confused9x Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 I dated this women for 3 years we lived together and we had alot of good times but they also came with bad ones we would fight so much over stupid ****. I came to a point where my career was on the line and i had to buckle down and study for a test and the fighting became to much so i had to move to my mothers to prep for my test we broke up pretty much n/c for 4 months. Needless to say i got my licence and am now working in the field and i love it. I was lonely but needed to do this because i'm 24. This girl has recently contacted me sayin she loves me and needs me. I have told her i love her to and always will and thats the truth i care about this women alot. Recently i have been dating this other women and i have to say everytime time i see this girl i get chest pain and it gets worse when she smiles. Every date we go on gets better an i have never been on dates that lasted so long. She is beautiful from the inside out. Her personality is awesome. But i feel like i owe it to my x to try to make things work she has done alot for me and put up with alot of **** when i was in school. but everytime i think of this other girl i'm dating i feel so happy its got me by my soul to squezz.......Thanks for reading...my first and last post.
2sure Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Be thankful to your ex for the good times you shared during your relationship. Acknowledge that at times it was trying and that lessons were learned together that will last a lifetime. Be thankful. But not guilty. You don't "owe" her a relationship. In fact, thats impossible to offer with any sincerity at this point. Let her move on. It is quite possible that the two of you were just not a good match. With other partners , each of you may find you flourish.
Lauriebell82 Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Why is it your first and last? In order to better help you we need to talk to you more! But anyway, I don't really think you "owe" your ex anything. You two broke up, you started dating someone new. However, if you really do love you ex, then it's not far to this new gf that you are hung up on someone else. So the question is, who do you really truely want: your ex or your new gf? Only you can decide that one.
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