Posco_Proudfoot Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 My SO and I are trying to work things out now. She has even suggested that we should consider a MC to help us solve some of our problems, since we obviously have some communication issues, and we both have issues with each other that neither can agree on. I think she spends too much and is horrible with money, where she thinks I have issues with pressure, has trust issues, etc etc.. What I have noticed is the missing intimacy. We're currently separated, but for some reason she is not comfortable even kissing me right now. I can't relate to this at all. We went awhile where we almost became roommates. She felt like I didn't want her anymore. But now that I do, she isn't responding. I don't understand it, and asking only gives me a "I just don't feel close to you right now". Is this something that takes time or is she just expressing her feelings and protecting herself from getting hurt?
Author Posco_Proudfoot Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 I take it I either explained this badly or doesn't make much sense to anyone else? Not sure which.
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