I'm probably just complicating things, but I'm a girl, and it's what I do...

[Wicked Child]

Ok, long story short (read my other topic if you want background on this)

 

Guy met me up on his own accord...Mucho groping that night (as expected) But also indecipherable gazing, smiling, and grabbing of my hand (totally unexpected). Lots of PDA (kinda expected, however I know for most men, PDA is like a declaration of sorts..) All this leads to amazing sex in the car (i know, i know..)

 

Next day...He's still texting, and still interested. (Extremely unexpected.)

 

So what now?

 

(I have to say this one, cos I find it really odd: 2 of his friends have added me as their friend on FB. Both happily married and have families, so that rules out my first thought... I've never met either. Both shoot me hellos and comments every so often. WTF?)

[Tomcat33]

(I have to say this one, cos I find it really odd: 2 of his friends have added me as their friend on FB. Both happily married and have families, so that rules out my first thought... I've never met either. Both shoot me hellos and comments every so often. WTF?)

 

 

Sorry but what is your first thought...? didn't get that!??! And are these married friends men or women?

[Wicked Child]

Oh their guys. A couple of his close friends, actually.

[Tomcat33]

Still not sure what you meant by it rules out the first thing you were thinking but having his married male friends contact you after a night of groping and sex in the car with the other dude is not a good sign.

[Wicked Child]

Oh no...It def was before the car happened. My first thought was that maybe they were interested or something to that effect... But no, they friended me well before the car incident...I'm kinda thinking like a sort of approval method? Yanno, like introducing someone to your friends to see what they think kinda thing...The night we hooked up, he wanted me to come meet up with him & his friends for a drink..I declined as I was en route to meet my bff..

[Tomcat33]

Oh ok if it was before then it's not so bad. Still find it kind of odd that his married fiends would be contacting you when you haven't even met them?

 

I suppose maybe he is having them check you out so that could be a good sign then?

[Wicked Child]

Yeah, I dunno...Just kinda going with the flow of things, really. I know that nothing anyone can say will just beam down knowledge to me, but sometimes I just need to get a couple different perspectives on things...This is the first time I've been involved in something like this, especially with someone I would consider out of my league (even though my friends disagree..). Really, I've never been pursued in such a way, so I'm enjoying every minute of it while trying to keep my head out of the clouds.

[Tomcat33]

Well I have a theory about how we ask for advice, I tend to believe we already know the answer to our query before we even reach out to hear what others have to say.

 

It sounds like you met someone totally fun and who makes you feel alive, ENJOY IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I bet he is NOT out of your league, stop thinking that. Your friends will know they are honest with you and can usually pick up your blind spots, we all have blind spots.