messiah Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 There is this girl, me and her are quite close. Ive started to develop feelings for her so i told her i like her she says she likes me too but she wants to leave things where they are at the mo. she thinks its better this way. which i dont really understand if you like someone wouldnt you want to further the relationship? am i an idiot because is what she says is that simple or do you agree with me that what she said is hard to understand. please thoughts and opinions on this.
Geishawhelk Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 No, she doesn't want to further the relationship. What she means is just be casual and laid back, not serious and committed. You may want to further it, that's understandable. She doesn't, because she doesn't feel the same way. And that's ok too.
Yamaha Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 If you want more it's time to walk away and find it with someone else. She's happy with your friendship and doesn't desire it to change.
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