heggs Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 well where to start So 3 days Ago, I let my gf go, From friends to lovers.. Started out great, seeing her every day going to party's.. Hanging with mates all of a sudden her mate start to dislike me for no reason - Gosh first issue, 2ndly 3 months, I move in with her at her home with her parents etc, As im a year older she still has school, She missed 3 days - Leading to me being kicked out.. and moving back home, After all the comotion We get to 4 months! we are fighting every day i curse get mad at her, with in this time her parents and grandmother start to hate me, had alot of confrontations with her mother, I get mad very easily her mum tell me I control which is a lie - her mums checks her msn convos with me, her txt msgs etc. They day we broke up shes was leaving to go away as she cant contact me since she lost her phone she has used her brothers phone msged me crazy one night, Took 2 and half days to hear from her.. Telling me shes misses me loves me - crys her self to sleep everynight, Last msg she sent me was - I miss you. Love you babe xx. NOW! her mother has been contacting me telling me to move on get out of her life etc, I wrote her a letter even her mother read that - evasion of privacy, Now again tonight i havent heard from her again, as her mother and father are bringin her home tomorrow. Any one Can help me im confused.
BobrigoSanchez Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I don't even know where to begin with this one. First of all at the time your "relationship" is falling apart, healthy couples are just getting to know each other. Second, allowing you to move in after 2 months of official relationship, is sick on your part, your GF's part and her parents part. Especially at an early stage. You all should be slapped across the face. I don't say this disrespectfully. Third, what can you expect as far as her mother being protective? You're living in their damn house! You guys are upside down in more ways than just geographically. You cannot fault her mum for snooping. This isn't the ideal in-law, but you two aren't conducting yourselves in the ideal manner anyhow. If you are being accused of being controlling, trust me, there is some truth to it. But to hell with all that, YOUVE ONLY BEEN OFFICIAL FOR 4 MONTHS AND YOU MOVED IN TOGETHER (NEGATIVE), AND WITH HER PARENTS NO LESS (DOUBLE-NEGATIVE) I don't know how twisted everyone else's logic is. Maybe you can find a witch that can cook up some love-me potions you might want to slip in their food, Potter.
Geishawhelk Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Firstly, this was never a relationship. It never got far enough. It was a liaison. Secondly, how the hell do you ever hope to conduct or develop a normal realtionship, under her parents' roof?! Thirdly, I'd be interested to know how old you guys are. because you sound in the near-final flushes of your teens.
Author heggs Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Im no longer living there i made it on my own part to leave. Im living on my own now and yes for that we have been up and down, Atleast i can confess and wasnt the greatest road but I was happy till it went up side down, im hurting - disappointed - we are both 18 going to 19. I never told her what to do or any of the above but **** that her mum has no ****ing right to snoop on our ****
Geishawhelk Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Im no longer living there i made it on my own part to leave. Pardon me.... you said you were kicked out. Im living on my own now and yes for that we have been up and down, Atleast i can confess and wasnt the greatest road but I was happy till it went up side down, im hurting - disappointed - we are both 18 going to 19. I never told her what to do or any of the above but **** that her mum has no ****ing right to snoop on our **** Yes she does, whilst her daughter is living at home and in her care. She has concerns, and voiced and aired them. She has every right, as a mother and carer, to do this. She's being maternal and protective. Once her daughter leaves, then the ties are loosened. My mother was this caring about me, and now that I'm 52 years of age I will be forever grateful that she watched the back of a silly, air-headed immature 19-year old that I was. The problem is, at your age, we think we know it all. The problem is at our age, we know you don't, but you won't be convinced.
BobrigoSanchez Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 You're no longer living there, but the seeds of this relationship have been planted. Do you think that this is going to last if only after 4 months of being together it turns to ****? First of all, the title of your thread says "Crazy ex GF?" You haven't described anything about her thats crazy, except for the fact that she thought it was a swell idea to move your buttin with her after 2 months. LMFAO. You're all crazy. Her mum has every right to bump into what ever the hell she wants while you're living under her roof. Now that you're out of there is irrelevant, because you've already exposed your all to her mum. Her mum thinks you're a p.o.s., and that's a bummer. But if you're in a situation where her mum's opinions hold some type of sway on the going ons of you're relationship, acknowledge that you're in an immature relationship whose future is as uncertain as any. It's a done turkey. Even if you run away with her, you're still f'ing up your life over stupid ****. You need to get your **** together. Sorry.
birdie Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I had friends that moved in together very quickly, within a few weeks of dating together but they both had a lot of previous relationship experience and didn't move in with parents. I understand why this is frustrating but really you have to calm down too and stop fighting!
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