neveragain2493 Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I'm awfully confused right now. I went on a date with a guy tonight who was very quiet and didn't say much. I saw a guy friend whom I hugged while we were out, and the guy I was on a date with acted rude on his way out. When we talked, he told me he blew everything with me. He was nervous, so he didn't say much. He also said he wasn't the jealous type, so he wasn't angry with me. He says he wants to hang out again. However, later tonight, I talked to a guy friend whom I have a bit of a crush on. He was flirting with me, and it made me feel great. It just feels right with him. What's bad, though, is that he'll flirt, and then get into a relationship with some girl. He tells me I'm his best friend. He gets a little jealous when I talk to guys sometimes, but he is all around maturing. He's told me that he loved me as a friend, but liked me as something more, too. Should I give the first guy, who I'm a little unsure about, a chance? Should I go for the second guy again? Should I just stay single and enjoy myself altogether? I'm so unsure of myself now. Help me. Please.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Why do you have to choose just one and discount the other already? You've only been on one date with one and no date with the other. Give them both a chance and see which one you like better.
Author neveragain2493 Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Very funny. :] Actually, me and the second one have hung out a lot. He says he'll make a move or keep an open mind, but he never really does anything. We just hug and remain best friends.
norajane Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Very funny. :] Actually, me and the second one have hung out a lot. He says he'll make a move or keep an open mind, but he never really does anything. We just hug and remain best friends. Then why would you pass up on getting to know and date other guys for a "friend" who has shown no intention of asking you on a date? Don't waste your life hoping he'll eventually DO something.
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