lilmrcheerful Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Was thinking, it would be our first Valentines day together this year, I am the kind of person that would normally go over the top with stuff but maybe on the first one it isn't such a good idea? I was thinking of keeping it simplish, something like order some stuff from Interflora and then book a meal at an Italian resturant for the evening?
Confusedalways Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 It varies greatly by the girl... I personally would like a big thing for the first one, but that's just me. I know some friends of mine that wouldn't want a big thing, so yeah. that's presuming you're a guy, that is.
Author lilmrcheerful Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Yeah im a guy. I understand what you're saying and it can work both ways although I think somewhere in between for a first one is good enough as we still wouldn't have been together a year yet. I get told that too much too early too soon is not a good thing because you've raised the standards too high plus also it takes away your options for later in the relationship and for the next time around, it wouldn't be so special. Just need some more ideas really of something good but not too OTT
Star Gazer Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 If she's working, I'd definitely send flowers or something to her workplace on Valentine's Day (or Friday if she's a 9-to-5er, seeing as the holiday is on a Saturday). Most women like to get attention on that day at work when (it feels like) everyone else is as well. Then I'd probably just suggest going to a nice restaurant, the kind that gives her a reason to put on a pretty dress.
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