johan Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Don't forget to open the door for him. They like that. Also, don't show up with flowers. Nothing says "whipped" more than that.
Author Kamille Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 Do you have some nice hot boots Kamille? Not here. My wardrobe is divided between two cities rigth now, which limits my options. I'm sure I can scrounge something up. I have my favorite top and skirt here. Come on, you can be more romantic than that! Take him out for dinner, somewhere relaxed and casual! That's actually a great idea and a few casual and relaxed places come to mind.
D-Lish Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 I think I have discovered a way into his lair. As the man remember you now have balls. I might just end up bumping into you!? I'm the one wearing all black. I think drinks are nice- I like the relaxed atmosphere of a pub. I have a list of places my gf's and I used to like because the lighting was good. Good date lighting is important! lol. That way when I tell them I am 30, it's almost believable! Aren't you only in town for another day or two though? What happens if you hit it off?
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Sports/dinner bars are great places to go. You can watch a hockey game and then chat between periods. This will also give you something to talk about.
Author Kamille Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 Aren't you only in town for another day or two though? What happens if you hit it off? Yes I am leaving soon... That's kind of the flaw in the whole plan. Whatever, we'll see what happens. Like I said, it'll just be fun to get to know him in a different setting then parties and bars.
Dumbledore Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Sports/dinner bars are great places to go. You can watch a hockey game and then chat between periods. This will also give you something to talk about. Exactly! You definitely don't want to run the risk of talking about anything substantial. Keep it light, and get him drunk.
Dumbledore Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Yes I am leaving soon... That's kind of the flaw in the whole plan. Sometimes it's just sex. There's no harm in that.
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Exactly! You definitely don't want to run the risk of talking about anything substantial. Keep it light, and get him drunk. Totally! This way, it's easy to take advantage of him, without having to resort to roofies!
Dumbledore Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 This way, it's easy to take advantage of him, without having to resort to roofies! Roofies?
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Roofies? A roofy is a date rape drug. I'm not serious Kamille. You're going to have a great time with him!
Dumbledore Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Joking about rape isn't very nice. I hope there is nobody reading this thread who has suffered through such a horrendous experience.
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Joking about rape isn't very nice. I hope there is nobody reading this thread who has suffered through such a horrendous experience. As someone who was almost raped, I think it's a great thing that I can still joke about it. Thanks for ruining it for me. Anyways Kamille. Sorry about the thread-jack. Have a great time!
Dumbledore Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 As someone who was almost raped, Then one would think you would have more sense than to be trivialising it. Anyway, 'nuff said.
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Then one would think you would have more sense than to be trivialising it. Anyway, 'nuff said. Trivializing and putting a humourous spin to it, is the best way to get it out of your system. It was a hairbreath away. If I hadn't rolled my chair backwards unexpectedly, the outcome would have been very different. He was tanked to the gills and almost twice my size. I was trapped against my desk with no one around, since I was working overtime. While the experience will never happen to you, understand that each person has to address their own issues and learn something through the experience. You can either let yourself be scarred for life or you can accept it as a bad experience and learn something from it. I CHOOSE not to empower it by giving it weight over my life. Thanks for understanding Dumbledore. But then, you don't have much empathy and little understanding of people.
Author Kamille Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 A friend of mine was roofied and I still thought it was funny. Of course she didn't get raped because her friends intervened and brought her home. All I have to say is that I hope the conversation is as lively as it has been in our previous run-ins so no drugging will be involved. Thanks all for the good luck wishes.
BareGoddess Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Then one would think you would have more sense than to be trivialising it. Anyway, 'nuff said. I agree. As someone who was actually date raped, I see nothing humorous about any of this. It's downright offensive. Have fun on your date, Kamille!
johan Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Do you think taking rufies would make it easier to whack off?
BareGoddess Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 Do you think taking rufies would make it easier to whack off? I doubt there'd be a difference. You might not remember it in the morning though.
Author Kamille Posted January 12, 2009 Author Posted January 12, 2009 In my last post I meant to say I still thought that TBF's comment was funny, not that my friend getting roofied was funny.
johan Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 I doubt there'd be a difference. You might not remember it in the morning though. I was just thinking it would make you "give it up" to yourself a bit easier.
johan Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 In my last post I meant to say I still thought that TBF's comment was funny, not that my friend getting roofied was funny. Right.
Trialbyfire Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 In my last post I meant to say I still thought that TBF's comment was funny, not that my friend getting roofied was funny. Thanks. It was intended to be taken in context, as a lighthearted comment. My apologies to anyone who felt it was offensive, because they themselves were raped and are still scarred by the experience.
BareGoddess Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 I was just thinking it would make you "give it up" to yourself a bit easier. *German accent* Sooooo, how long haf you been haffing zis self-denial problem?
BareGoddess Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 No scars here, honey. Just thought it was insensitive. Not everyone just "gets over" an experience like that. Only someone who has actually had it happen to them would know what I mean. Carry on.
D-Lish Posted January 12, 2009 Posted January 12, 2009 I think it's great Kam! Can't wait to hear how it goes!
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