Ariadne Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Yup - same guy. Good luck Kamille! For what you said, he seemed more interested in you than the other girl that everyone wants to set up. Probably confused as to what to do, especially since you were turning him down because of the other girl and not giving him clues.
Star Gazer Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 We usually regret the things we did NOT do, not the things we did. Do it.
Dumbledore Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 ok it's done. How long does it take to cook a goose? johan is going to be so proud.
Ariadne Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 ok it's done. I sent him an invite which pretty much reads like Melody's suggestion. Now let's hope he checks his emails on weekends! " Hey Joe, I'm going to be leaving town soon, want to go out and get a drink ?" Uhhh that´s a good one. Hope he replies soon.
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Wll done and good luck!! Oh, and never mind the disloyal bit. Not even close.
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Girls can get away with asking a guy out via email. Guys cannot do that.
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Girls can get away with asking a guy out via email. Guys cannot do that. Johan, why can't they?
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Johan, why can't they? Because it's considered cowardly. A guy must do it in person, if possible. If not that, then on the phone. But doing it via email or text just increases the chance of giving a bad impression of your male fortitude.
alphamale Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Well.... I'm leaving town soon and there is this one guy who absolutely gets me weak in the knees. I've decided to throw all 'rules' rhetoric to the side and I'm asking him out. I'll keep you all posted. you should think twice before doing that, if he was interested in you and confident enough he would have already asked you out
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Because it's considered cowardly. A guy must do it in person, if possible. If not that, then on the phone. But doing it via email or text just increases the chance of giving a bad impression of your male fortitude. I think male fortitude does not hinge on an email invite. I say go for it. Just make sure you sweep her of your feet with your fancy rhetoric...and then with your fortitude in the flesh.
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 you should think twice before doing that, if he was interested in you and confident enough he would have already asked you out Alpha, what does it really matter? What's there to lose?
alphamale Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Because it's considered cowardly. A guy must do it in person, if possible. If not that, then on the phone. But doing it via email or text just increases the chance of giving a bad impression of your male fortitude. baloney....if a woman has already met a man and would be interested in him it really doesn't matter how he asks her out. email and text are totally acceptable these days.
alphamale Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Alpha, what does it really matter? What's there to lose? why don't you ask him to ask you out sister??? say somethin' like " oh (insert his name here) btw i would really love it if you asked me out sometime...tee hee" make sure you say the tee hee part
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 " oh (insert his name here) btw i would really love it if you asked me out sometime...tee hee" Not a bad idea at all. Think I'll try it with one of my colleagues...tee hee and all!!!
TwilightSky Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 baloney....if a woman has already met a man and would be interested in him it really doesn't matter how he asks her out. email and text are totally acceptable these days. I know a guy who texted a girl, asking her out. Didn't work out to well for him, sadly. He was a bit too brazen in the beginning, I think.
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 why don't you ask him to ask you out sister??? say somethin' like " oh (insert his name here) btw i would really love it if you asked me out sometime...tee hee" make sure you say the tee hee part ha ha. I agree with this. Except the tee hee should only be included if you want him to think you're a complete moron. Sometimes that helps.
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I know a guy who texted a girl, asking her out. Didn't work out to well for him, sadly. He was a bit too brazen in the beginning, I think. Sorry to hear that this happened to you. The truth is that anything can work, depending on the circumstances and the people involved.
Tomcat33 Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Because it's considered cowardly. A guy must do it in person, if possible. If not that, then on the phone. But doing it via email or text just increases the chance of giving a bad impression of your male fortitude. Hmm I didn't know that. So is that when you already know someone or with someone you barely know? Like if I meet a guy say on the weekend and then he emails me to ask me out that would be considered cowardly?
marlena Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Except the tee hee should only be included if you want him to think you're a complete moron. OK!! Hee-haw any better?
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Completely acceptable for a guy to ask me out with a text or email.
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Completely acceptable for a guy to ask me out with a text or email. How about on an internet forum discussion thread?
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 How about on an internet forum discussion thread? Kinda like what KMT does? lol. Nope, that's not cool Johan- but you can keep sending me the nude photo's of yourself on PM. Did Kami report back if she has asked him or not?
Dumbledore Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 How about on an internet forum discussion thread? :lmao:
CandyGirlXO Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Completely acceptable for a guy to ask me out with a text or email. Agree here! My BF now used to invite me out all the time via e-mail/IM/text. Nothing wrong with that. Good luck you are brave girl
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