Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Well.... I'm leaving town soon and there is this one guy who absolutely gets me weak in the knees. I've decided to throw all 'rules' rhetoric to the side and I'm asking him out. I'll keep you all posted.
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 You go girl! You ARE the prize! Lol- was that the saying?
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Good luck Kamille. Thanks! I have to say your posts on The Collector's thread had something to do with it;). You go girl! You ARE the prize! Lol- was that the saying? LOL here's crossing my fingers! He's so unbearably cute. I didn't ask him out yet. I wrote him a message first and I'll see if he responds. And guys, seriously, I wouldn't feel right paying for the whole date. Again, I'd be afraid he'd feel emasculated...
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Nah, pay for the date and then tell him he's obligated to go down on you later.
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Nah, pay for the date and then tell him he's obligated to go down on you later. I like the way you think. D-Lish, Get-Down Guru.
dreamergrl Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Thanks! I have to say your posts on The Collector's thread had something to do with it;). LOL here's crossing my fingers! He's so unbearably cute. I didn't ask him out yet. I wrote him a message first and I'll see if he responds. Good luck!!!!!! And guys, seriously, I wouldn't feel right paying for the whole date. Again, I'd be afraid he'd feel emasculated... Ssshhh don't get everyone started on that topic again
zhsoj Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Indeed, good luck. I say ask sooner rather than later... You only live once.
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I like the way you think. D-Lish, Get-Down Guru. Actually, that demand often works whether you pay or not girlfriend!!! How do you know this dude? And I have a dirty mind, so don't mind me!
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Ssshhh don't get everyone started on that topic again Can't help myself. This board is obsessed with that topic. I never felt "who pays" was ever an issue in my lovelife though. Indeed, good luck. I say ask sooner rather than later... You only live once. Carpe Diem! We'll see if I can scrounge up the courage but I do have nothing to lose. Actually, that demand often works whether you pay or not girlfriend!!! I need to start asking for it more often then! How do you know this dude? Met him at a party YEARS ago. The conversation was great at the time. I run into him every once in awhile and everytime the conversation is free-flowing. Last year he added me on Facebook. This would be my channel of communication for a date. Ooh I'm getting nervous now that I decided to do this! But he's a super nice guy, so even if he says no... I know it'll be fine between us. Plus, then I'm leaving town for a few months, so if he says no there won't be any chance of a run in anytime soon.
The Collector Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I've seen your picture, he'll probably say yes. Go for it you fearless man-eater x
Dumbledore Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 It will be great to finally have a documented case of this actually happening. After all the rumours, and folktales, I mean. Talk about a brave opening gambit! We all wish you the very best of luck. And we understand that desperate times call for desperate measures.
D-Lish Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 You're going to chicken out. I don't think she will... And Kam, how are you going to make it clear you're not asking him as a friend, but have romantic intentions...
Dumbledore Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 , how are you going to make it clear you're not asking him as a friend, but have romantic intentions... Gently brush your fingers up against his junk. That says it all.
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 You're going to chicken out. I'm totally thinking of chickening out. Damn you for calling it Johan! If only I was rebellious enough to want to prove you wrong.
melodymatters Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I'm totally thinking of chickening out. Damn you for calling it Johan! If only I was rebellious enough to want to prove you wrong. Noooo, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Is this the guy you had chemistry with but one of your "friends" was c*ck blocking ? Just write a quick note " Hey Joe, I'm going to be leaving town soon, want to go out and get a drink ?" Then use body language to show that you'd like to be more than friends. DO IT !!! And good luck !
Dumbledore Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 get a drink ?" Then use body That's pretty much it in a nutshell. Just follow melody's simple recipe for the time of your life.
johan Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I'm totally thinking of chickening out. Damn you for calling it Johan! If only I was rebellious enough to want to prove you wrong. Too much time between the decision to do it and the time when you actually have to do it => lots of time to think about it. I hope you do it. Just don't think about it.
jerbear Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I'm totally thinking of chickening out. Damn you for calling it Johan! If only I was rebellious enough to want to prove you wrong. Do it, do it! Ask him out! bock! bock! She'll either do this or
zhsoj Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 Don't back out. Don't think about it. Just do it. Really, regret is so much more depressing than rejection.
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 Noooo, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Is this the guy you had chemistry with but one of your "friends" was c*ck blocking ? Yup - same guy.
Author Kamille Posted January 11, 2009 Author Posted January 11, 2009 ok it's done. I sent him an invite which pretty much reads like Melody's suggestion. Now let's hope he checks his emails on weekends!
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