More Than Friends?

[purpledevil]

Hi everyone, I've been dating a girl and I'm not the most cluey person when it comes to dating. I've been in a relationship before but it was rushed into over the course of a weekend, it lasted 8 months but still was rushed into at the start so there was no dating. I have been out with this girl 3 times now and I guess I just wanted some opinions from experienced people to see if they match my ideas on what is going on. Ill try to keep it short : P

 

 

• We've been out together 3 times. Two were movie dates and afterwards we drove around for a long while talking and listening to music in the car.
  
• I invited her to my house, for dinner and a movie etc, just the two of us. She accepted but cancelled at the last minute because she was sick, straight away told me I should go out with her next weekend, which is the next bullet point. She said she was looking forward to seeing me again and I said the same.
  
• The last date was with alot of couples, no real single friends there. I held her hand multiple times, she put her legs up on mine when we were sitting down and i carressed and poked : p On the trip home she was tired and I put arm around her and rested my hand on your other shoulder carressing her, all of this with no objection. I noticed her holding her hair up on this date when we were talking towards the end, I don't usually notice alot of signs as I think she is quite shy and inexperienced like this.
  
• She has said her friends want to meet me (she's been talking about me)
  
• She has dropped by my house with a friend and we talked, afterwards I said it was a nice surprise for her to drop by, and she said it she was glad it was good to see me.
  
• We usually end messages online when we talk with xoxo and /hug etc
  
• On New Year's Eve she basically said it would be better if I was there as we were at separate parties.
  

Neither of us have really said we like eachother or a interested in a relationship etc (which I am). I feel stupid asking this as typing these points out, to me make it seem like something more than a friendship is building, and should just be left unspoken. Just keep seeing eachother and slowly escalate the affection. I guess I just want some reassurance or guidance because I really like this girl I will be going out with the same group again this week for drinks.

[Adri Ana]

Yes,it`s close to "more than friends" .

The main in "more than friendship" (in a simple friendship as well) is the emotional background you interact ,

and here its visible you do interact really well .

[purpledevil]

I feel like, its definately heading to more than friends from my end. Interested to know what she thinks in concrete, based on the signs I think its looking good and we're still getting to know each other. We usually talking on MSN and by text, I don't call too much because I'm studying at the moment and can't afford to make mobile calls otherwise I would.

 

I've lost my head a bit in the end, do I increase the challenge by breaking my talk routine and giving her a few days or should I keep chasing and staying in touch calmly via text and MSN, we have basically talked every day since we started talking online, unless we're busy of course. Is it a wise thing to tell her that I really like her online or by text, just so that she knows for sure my interest is romantic, or should I just ramp up the physical next time I see her, even though we will be in front of friends not really alone.